I Lost My Best Friend Bun-bun.. Options

[george]

A few days ago we returned home after a few days to fine our family pet cat Bun-Bun having trouble breathing, we took her to the vet and quickly he said to put her down because of heart and lung problems. This pet was a family member for 17 yrs, a witness to the growth and development of our family, a family member who was alway there, always gave love alway sat quiet aside as we went on our daily duty's but was always there. I sweet face cat with a heart of gold. She touched our family so deeply and as left a hole in our lives. We regret doing what we did, maybe there was another way, maybe it was her time, maybe it did not have to happen. The entire family has been crying for 4 days, none of us can eat or sleep, or work, or go to school or work. We cant get over this. Maybe we made a mistake. I cant forgive myself for doing this to a family member. This was not our first pet or have we not been threw this type of thing before, it just happen so fast that I regret not giving it more time to develop. Our other pets all crying as much as the people in the family are. I cant bare to think of this as a mistake. I have tried to seek help for grief counseling but have not been able to find any.I am so pissed off at the vet and myself for jumping the gun. I don't know what to do..I failed my family. SOB why wasn't I given more time to think about this. Why can I have that day to do over ?

[sissycat]

What precious pictures of Bun Bun. Look at the love in her eye's.
Wow 17 years--you must have so many wonderful memories, pictures, funtimes. No one can take that from you.

What you did was to give her a gift. The Gift of not having to suffer! I am sure she is grateful for that.
It takes a true caring person to make that decision!! I know it is hard to think right now, but don't blame your self. (it was a decision made from the heart)

As another said come often. We are here to help one another. If not for this place L/S I don't know what I would have done or who I would have turned to. Hope we can be of some comfort to you.

Bet Bun Bun is having lots of fun at the Rainbow Bridge!!!

Hugs to you and your new Angel Bun Bun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[george]

What precious pictures of Bun Bun. Look at the love in her eye's.
Wow 17 years--you must have so many wonderful memories, pictures, funtimes. No one can take that from you.

What you did was to give her a gift. The Gift of not having to suffer! I am sure she is grateful for that.
It takes a true caring person to make that decision!! I know it is hard to think right now, but don't blame your self. (it was a decision made from the heart)

As another said come often. We are here to help one another. If not for this place L/S I don't know what I would have done or who I would have turned to. Hope we can be of some comfort to you.

Bet Bun Bun is having lots of fun at the Rainbow Bridge!!!

Hugs to you and your new Angel Bun Bun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

thank you, I know she was a good girl and did not need to suffer anymore. I just cant believe she's gone. She was my right hand, You don't pay attention to it but she was always there. I miss her.. I cant stand to go home it so empty with out her. I see her in all the places she hung out. I look and she not there. I know shes happy now. I just miss her.. Thank you.. God bless you..