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 Feb 13 2009, 03:01 PM
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A few days ago we returned home after a few days to fine our family pet cat Bun-Bun having trouble breathing, we took her to the vet and quickly he said to put her down because of heart and lung problems. This pet was a family member for 17 yrs, a witness to the growth and development of our family, a family member who was alway there, always gave love alway sat quiet aside as we went on our daily duty's but was always there. I sweet face cat with a heart of gold. She touched our family so deeply and as left a hole in our lives. We regret doing what we did, maybe there was another way, maybe it was her time, maybe it did not have to happen. The entire family has been crying for 4 days, none of us can eat or sleep, or work, or go to school or work. We cant get over this. Maybe we made a mistake. I cant forgive myself for doing this to a family member. This was not our first pet or have we not been threw this type of thing before, it just happen so fast that I regret not giving it more time to develop. Our other pets all crying as much as the people in the family are. I cant bare to think of this as a mistake. I have tried to seek help for grief counseling but have not been able to find any.I am so pissed off at the vet and myself for jumping the gun. I don't know what to do..I failed my family. SOB why wasn't I given more time to think about this. Why can I have that day to do over ?
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Feb 13 2009, 07:50 PM
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Please remember that a fear of suffocation is a primal fear common to all things that breathe.
Suffering aside, imagine Bun-Bun's fear and terror. Seventeen years is a good life, and while we wish thye could stay forever, it was a good QUALITY life for as long as it was. You did right. -------------------- Miles, my friend and Cat-Wife. 3-11-2008
The Sweetest Cat in my Universe. |
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Feb 13 2009, 08:55 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 42 Joined: 13-February 09 Member No.: 5,533 |
QUOTE (Jon730 @ Feb 13 2009, 07:50 PM)  Please remember that a fear of suffocation is a primal fear common to all things that breathe. Suffering aside, imagine Bun-Bun's fear and terror. Seventeen years is a good life, and while we wish thye could stay forever, it was a good QUALITY life for as long as it was. You did right. Yes I think so. thank you very much. It's hard to bring these feelings of regret to terms. She was a family member. I miss her so.. God bless |
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george I Lost My Best Friend Bun-bun.. Feb 13 2009, 03:01 PM
LoveThem Please do not allow regrets to overwhelm you. I am... Feb 13 2009, 04:28 PM
george QUOTE (Love Them @ Feb 13 2009, 04:28 PM)... Feb 13 2009, 06:36 PM Nemo's Mommy Dear George,
I know the questions you are going t... Feb 13 2009, 04:29 PM george QUOTE (Nemo's Mommy @ Feb 13 2009, 04... Feb 13 2009, 07:07 PM george QUOTE (george @ Feb 13 2009, 03:01 PM) A ... Feb 13 2009, 09:15 PM george QUOTE (george @ Feb 13 2009, 03:01 PM) A ... Feb 13 2009, 09:18 PM sissycat What precious pictures of Bun Bun. Look at the lo... Feb 13 2009, 10:04 PM george QUOTE (sissycat @ Feb 13 2009, 10:04 PM) ... Feb 14 2009, 07:42 AM george QUOTE (sissycat @ Feb 13 2009, 10:04 PM) ... Feb 14 2009, 07:47 AM ann I am so sorry for your loss of Bun Bun. I know the... Feb 14 2009, 01:52 AM sissycat Oh of course Bun Bun forgives you. Bet she is Tha... Feb 14 2009, 10:28 AM george QUOTE (sissycat @ Feb 14 2009, 10:28 AM) ... Feb 14 2009, 11:32 AM george QUOTE (george @ Feb 14 2009, 11:32 AM) Th... Feb 14 2009, 11:38 AM LoveThem Thank you for sharing Bun-Bun's pictures....sh... Feb 14 2009, 01:22 PM george QUOTE (LoveThem @ Feb 14 2009, 01:22 PM) ... Feb 14 2009, 04:50 PM sissycat TRUST She DID trust you. That is why you made th... Feb 14 2009, 01:38 PM george QUOTE (sissycat @ Feb 14 2009, 01:38 PM) ... Feb 14 2009, 04:57 PM sissycat No way is she alone. She has all the other pets a... Feb 14 2009, 05:07 PM george QUOTE (sissycat @ Feb 14 2009, 05:07 PM) ... Feb 14 2009, 08:35 PM sissycat I know that special love/bond you are talking of. ... Feb 15 2009, 12:55 AM george QUOTE (sissycat @ Feb 15 2009, 12:55 AM) ... Feb 15 2009, 08:06 AM sissycat You can't get over it in just a few days. It ... Feb 15 2009, 10:48 AM george QUOTE (sissycat @ Feb 15 2009, 10:48 AM) ... Feb 15 2009, 01:06 PM LoveThem George,
you are NOT nuts. Losing a loved special... Feb 15 2009, 02:47 PM george QUOTE (LoveThem @ Feb 15 2009, 02:47 PM) ... Feb 15 2009, 05:53 PM myhrtisbrkn George,
I can't think of a single thing to ad... Feb 15 2009, 05:31 PM george QUOTE (myhrtisbrkn @ Feb 15 2009, 05:31 P... Feb 15 2009, 06:39 PM jasonsmom You did NOT let her down, you helped her when she ... Feb 15 2009, 07:37 PM george QUOTE (jasonsmom @ Feb 15 2009, 07:37 PM)... Feb 15 2009, 11:13 PM ann Helllo again George, I hope you get what you need ... Feb 16 2009, 01:58 AM george QUOTE (ann @ Feb 16 2009, 01:58 AM) Helll... Feb 16 2009, 07:27 AM sissycat Yes, time------------
Your Bun Bun knew how much s... Feb 16 2009, 08:36 AM george QUOTE (sissycat @ Feb 16 2009, 08:36 AM) ... Feb 16 2009, 10:30 AM LoveThem HI, George
Everything you say, I read and just wa... Feb 16 2009, 03:43 PM george I spoke to the vet today and he was curt but throu... Feb 16 2009, 03:58 PM LoveThem Wow, George....I didn't know you looked like J... Feb 16 2009, 04:25 PM george QUOTE (LoveThem @ Feb 16 2009, 04:25 PM) ... Feb 16 2009, 04:46 PM ann Hi George, Just wanted to let you know that I... Feb 17 2009, 02:24 AM george QUOTE (ann @ Feb 17 2009, 02:24 AM) Hi Ge... Feb 17 2009, 08:34 AM Jon730 QUOTE (george @ Feb 17 2009, 08:34 AM) It... Feb 17 2009, 09:09 AM george QUOTE (Jon730 @ Feb 17 2009, 09:09 AM) I ... Feb 18 2009, 12:49 AM Nemo's Mommy Hi George....
Glad to hear you were able to go t... Feb 17 2009, 04:34 PM george [quote name='Nemo's Mommy' date='F... Feb 17 2009, 07:53 PM Jules02 George,
I just wanted to say I am so sorry about B... Feb 18 2009, 09:42 AM george QUOTE (Jules02 @ Feb 18 2009, 09:42 AM) G... Feb 18 2009, 12:39 PM george It has been over three weeks now and it is getting... Feb 24 2009, 08:31 AM ann Hi George, I'm glad the presence of Bun Bun ha... Feb 25 2009, 02:17 AM |
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