My Beloved Casey - You Are Missed Options

[karen - casey]

We had to say good-bye to my beloved Casey on Thursday the 13th. He was diagnosed with Lung cancer on Oct 24th. We were told the cancer had progressed to far for any kind of treatment by our Vet. We were devistated by the news, he seemed fine. We took him home and showered him with treats and love. Last Tuesday we noticed his breathing was getting labored and by Wednesday evening it had become worse. Casey's condition worsened overnight. Casey always slept with us, but on this night he slept on the floor next to my husband. In the morning he went onto his kitty condo and started gasping for air (this lasted only a short period of time, but we knew what we had to do). We called the vet immediately to make that dreaded appointment. When it was time to leave I gently picked Casey up and wrapped him in a towel. He never liked to be picked up, so he tried to get away from me, which broke my heart. As we got the door he turned and tried to bite me (the first time ever). I held him close and told him I loved him. He did not like going outside which made the trip harder. I was unable to see my usual vet, but the vet that was there was extremely kind. I have cried every day since. I had 12 wonderful years with him. I know we made the right decision - the humane one, but my heart is broken. I was not ready to say good-bye. He was my first cat and I feel empty without him. I do have three other cats and a dog the I love dearly, but Casey was my special little boy. I do take comfort in knowing I will be reunited with him one day.

[moon_beam]

HI, Karen, please permit me to offer you my sincerest sympathies in the loss of your beloved Casey. Losing a beloved companion is never easy regardless of the cir%%stances or how long we have been blessed with the privilege of their company. This grief journey is a one day at a time journey, Karen. Some days will seem easier while others will be a struggle to get through emotionally. Losing a beloved companion is painful both physically and emotionally, so it is important for you to do whatever you feel is appropriate in order to help you bridge the adjustment to the physical absence of your beloved Casey. When my number one kitty son Eli joined the angels almost 2 years ago, I would hold onto one of his blankets and would sleep with his collar under my pillow. It feels in the beginning like your heart has been ripped out of your body - - like your Casey has taken a part of you with her. And she has - - the part of you that you shared only with her. Casey gave you her unconditional love and undivided attention and you surrendered yourself to her without reservation. Hopefully as you progress in your healing journey you will come to realize that Casey's sweet living Spirit is still with you. The bond of love you shared is as strong as it always has been surpassing time and space, and no one and nothing can ever take that away from you. Please know you are among friends here who understand this grief you are going through, and we are here for you for as long and as often as you need us. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, Karen, and please let us know how you're doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam