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CheriAnn
post Oct 13 2004, 08:01 AM
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Hello,

First, I want to thank everyone in here that has been so supportive!!! I honestly don't think I would be coping with my Rachael's death as well as I am if it had not been for all the kind words, easing my guilt and beautiful and touching poems/stories. I am in here reading everyday!!!! It has now been a week and 4 days since I had to end her suffering and let her go to Rainbow Bridge. I still cry, but at least I can get through the day at work without showing my tears.

Next, I am wondering how you properly thank the kind people around you that express their sympathy? I have discovered that I work with some very wonderful people. I've had flowers delivered and cards given to me at work. For several years, my co-workers knew that my husband and I had tried to have children with no success. As a result, they all know how much my furchildren mean to me! My cubicle at work is covered wall to wall with pictures of Rachael and Danny. Anyway, I say all that because it probably explains why my co-workers did what they did for me. I just found out this morning that a co-worker who heard me talking about trying to get a headstone for Rachael's grave site last week, started a collection at work for me to gather money to purchase it. I am just SO blessed to work with such caring people. They all seemed to understand that Rachael was more like a daughter to me!!!

So, how do I thank all these kind people? Is a simple thank you card enough? Is there some poem that expresses gratitude for such understanding people?

Thanks again!
Still Grieving,
Cheri


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Rachael Ann
November 18, 1992 - October 2, 2004

My best friend, my daughter, my life
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Muffins
post Oct 14 2004, 03:21 PM
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Hi Cheri Ann:

I'm in total agreement with DJ and Vicki..............

There is nothing like a card, with a "heartfelt sentiment" inside, telling your co-workers just how you feel about their gift of kindness; and/or DJ's comment about "Angels"...... wub.gif
I don't think it's "schmaltzy" at all!!!

And yes..........some yummy cookies or a cake, would be just perfect....

It's wonderful to hear that you have some very loving and understanding friends at work.....

God Bless you!!!!

Love, Denise


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Our Beloved Girl, Ernestine (AKA) "Ernie-Bird"
April, 1984 - February 7, 2004
***AFFA***
Forever, you will ALWAYS live on in our hearts!
DEPARTED FROM EARTH, NEVER FORGOTTEN.... Love, Mom & Dad xoxoxoxoxo


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