I Miss My Little Guy... Options

[jharbeck]

I have posted in hear before about my little 1 1/2 year old cat Bartelbee when he was diagnosed with dry FIP. I guess I just am sitting here lonely, really missing his cute little face. On Monday of last week his disease finally took over his body. For a month I watched him go from wobbling while he walked to only being able to move his front legs. On Monday morning he couldn’t even raise his head. The Bartelbee light had gone from his eyes. It was the hardest thing I had ever done letting him go. Holding him as he stopped breathing with his little head that had given me so many nuzzles laid in my hand. I couldn’t even see him clearly due to the tears in my eyes. Through my grief, and my tears, I was still able to let him know that it was ok he could let go and that I loved him.

I have three other cats but Bartelbee was my special little guy. I volunteer at a shelter and about a year ago 4 kittens were dumped at there backdoor. One of those kittens was Bartelbee. He was scared and shy but after months of loving him he came out of his shell…we truly bonded. I knew we couldn’t be without each other and as soon as I could I brought him home to be a part of the family. I never wanted four cats but I couldn’t be without him.

So many nights he would snuggle up and sleep on my chest with his little purr going. He would follow me wherever I went. All he wanted was to be near me. He would rub his face against mine anytime I was close. Half the time his forehead was covered in my make-up. He never seemed to mind. I didn’t know that a cat could love as much as Bartelbee did. How can I go on without that?

I feel like I am missing part of myself. I have an empty hole in my heart. I was so strong for him while he was sick but now that I don’t have him anymore I feel broken. I lost the most precious thing in my life and there is nothing I can do about it. When he was sick we would lay next to each other with our foreheads touching and I would just talk to him. My voice always seemed to relax him. I would tell him that I wish I could take this disease from him and fight it myself, that I would do anything to make him better. I guess I just don’t know how to deal with this…to deal with losing him. My home seems empty without my little guy.

[sissycat]

I am sorry to learn of your Bartlebee. Sounds like you two had alot of great times to remember. I know it is very hard for you right now. All I can say is he would have wanted you to be alright. Take it one day at a time. Know we are all here for you.

Hugs to You!!!!

[ann]

I am sorry to learn of your Bartlebee. Sounds like you two had alot of great times to remember. I know it is very hard for you right now. All I can say is he would have wanted you to be alright. Take it one day at a time. Know we are all here for you.

Hugs to You!!!!

I'm so sorry for your loss. I too lost a precious one at a young age. I've told others it's so hard to come to grips with all the years ahead, so looking forward to, gone. Everyone here knows what your going thru. I've learned that we think the hardest part is letting go, but it's the reality of not being able to accept that they are gone. I cry as I type this, as I've done everyday for the last 2 1/2 mo. To let go of something/someone we loved sooo much tests our stenght and character everyday. I've been wanting to voulenteer at a shelter myself, cuz I just love animals and would love to be around them, but when I got my Arthur it was the first time I had ever been into one. My heart broke for every one of them. Weeks later I could still see their little faces, sad eyes. I know they are safe and well taken care of, but to see them in those cages day in and day out, well, the stenght in me is gone. I want so much to try and find that so I could help. I admire you for that. Bartlebee may have had a short life, but it was bursting at the seems with a lifetime of love for eachother. Treasure that, as I know you will. Hugs .. Ann