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[catlover2]

Thanks to the few persons (and you know who you are ) who have been incredibly supportive during this difficult time. To respond to the countless criticisms and skeptical remarks, I have none. Only this, I don't owe anyone an explanation or count by count recollection of all that transpired w/my cat Max. Everything happened so fast, he declined w/in hours of having him home and I felt that the best choice for him was to put him down. I am still grieving and this forum has made it only harder.
I wish you peace-

[toonie]

Love Them I have to reply to your comment here because poor Bue's Mommy has been censured, right after your post. You say: " If you are in pain we don't know about, please tell us. " Thank you for this opportunity, Bue's post being closed, I have no choice but to come back to the most appropriately titled thread to clarify something for all aboard and it can not be a pm since you represent so many readers here who according to what you say are backing you.

So here comes the integral post that you were priviledged to write before the unjust cut off

Apr 10 2008, 10:21 AM
Seriously though, there are a number of members here who are interested in an explanation....as LS pointed out we are supposed to be friends here yet lately there have been others (not you) who have posted negatively to some here who only asked a question and now we see what seems to be a negative comment which was not responded to negatively. And when an explanation was requested (which was suggested by LS), the above post does not address the issue. People come here because they are hurting as you also know because you have been through the pain also. You post pictures to bring smiles to people and they do indeed. That's why what you posted to Joanne does not make any sense at all and does not sound like you at all.

Something hurtful can't be made light of and we all feel the hurt because we feel each other's pain. If you are in pain we don't know about, please tell us but also please explain the post you wrote. It was LS's suggestion as a number of members have commented upon it in complete wonderment and bafflement. It is just not you and it saddens all greatly.

When LoveThem speaks of "others" it's really me that she is targeting just like I was targeted with the "some people" in the previous Catlover post, "Thanks for your Support with my Max" When Love Them pretends to have been a victim and claims she only asked a question re read the thread: http://lightning-strike.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=4475
provided LT hasn't modified it as she has done in the past)and figure out for yourselves if Love Them's style of questionning was (a) compassionate and loving or ( confrontational and accusatory, figure it all out from the soapbox conversations that were going on Joanne's thread at the same time as Love Them was giving CatlOver the third degree. About the pm's you seem to be getting Love Them if there is such a 'number' of members who you seem to represent and speak for, why the hell are they all hiding behind you instead of posting on their own. I have received a number of supportive pms as well but I don't make this into a gang up affair.
I also think that both Joanne and Love Them could have been a bit more tolerant and just let the thing go before it was closed considering the recovery from the April 1 surgery that Bue is going through for the less than last two weeks. Some way to help someone heal. Same for Catlover, some way to welcome someone who was deep in grief. Good Grief some of you just don't get it at all do you.