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Victoria
post Nov 30 2007, 02:33 PM
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Hello all
I just lost my best friend on Sunday. He was just short of his 15th birthday. He had been sick for about 2 months. I tryed everything to help but nothing did. His name was J-dog, he was a very speical dog a Jack Russell. This is the hardest thing I've had to do. I'm having a really bad day today. I have two other dogs another JRT she is almost 13, and a Lab who is 13. What a crew! Both of my other dogs are joining me in my grief. I'm worried about my Lab he too is just hanging on to life by a thread. I don't know how I will deal with back to back grief like this. The Lab is my husbands dog, J-dog was mine and my other JRT is both of ours. She is having a hard time dealing with Jays death. I try not to cry around her, but it hard because she won't let me out of her sight. I quess I need some encouragement on how to deal with her. Gosh I miss my buddie so much.... sad.gif
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LoveThem
post Jan 31 2008, 01:48 PM
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I don't have the answer to your question. Maybe you could call your vet who is supervising all of this and ask. I know when my boy was sick, I would call my vet every so often and just leave a message that when they had a moment I wanted to bring them up to date on how my boy is doing and they would always call me and answer any questions on the phone. You might try that.

Other than that, I do a special person here..whose name is jackjackbojack. She is doing and has learned the same medical treatment you are doing. She understands needles and fluids. Unfortunately her computer has been down for about 10 days otherwise she is online everyday. Hopefully, she will be on soon again and I will direct her to your thread and question in case you haven't found an answer by then.

Take Care and really consider just making a phone call to your baby's vet...you don't have to do a vet visit to ask a question. I find vets are quite willing to help a person understand what is going on. Sometimes they have a simple answer to a question that brings a lot of relief. I have urged others to make such calls and have been told they were glad they did because the staff and vets were very helpful on the phone and they didn't realize this was available.


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His story: Section D&D: How do I stop crying? and also... My Boy is Gone Forever.

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- Victoria   So Sad!   Nov 30 2007, 02:33 PM
- - LoveThem   Welcome to this forum. There is a lot of caring an...   Nov 30 2007, 02:58 PM
- - annie's mommy   Dear Victoria, I am sorry for your loss of J-dog....   Nov 30 2007, 04:06 PM
- - Victoria   J-Dog was the greatest of dogs. He knew so many tr...   Nov 30 2007, 04:54 PM
- - Bue's Mommy   Hello Victoria, this is the best place to come ot ...   Nov 30 2007, 05:16 PM
- - fuzzysmom   Victoria, J-dog sounds like such a great dog. JRT...   Nov 30 2007, 05:28 PM
- - LuvLabs   Victoria, I am deeply sorry to read of your loss o...   Nov 30 2007, 06:18 PM
- - Victoria   Thank you all for your kind words. I really will c...   Nov 30 2007, 06:46 PM
- - toonie   QUOTE I try not to cry around her, but it hard bec...   Dec 1 2007, 06:59 AM
- - Victoria   Well I can't believe it been a week and a day....   Dec 3 2007, 04:46 PM
- - forduffy   Hi Victoria, Welcome to this site. I am so sorry a...   Dec 3 2007, 06:52 PM
- - Victoria   I think one of the hardest things I've had to ...   Dec 5 2007, 06:46 PM
- - annie's mommy   Dear Victoria, It does seem like some people tole...   Dec 5 2007, 08:37 PM
- - Victoria   Annies Mommy I know I will get through this. there...   Dec 6 2007, 07:32 PM
- - forduffy   Hi Victoria, I have gotten to the point that I am ...   Dec 7 2007, 05:48 PM
- - Victoria   I am having a real bad day today. Time seem not to...   Dec 13 2007, 07:07 PM
- - annie's mommy   Victoria, I really do know how you feel. I am qu...   Dec 13 2007, 07:11 PM
- - Victoria   Thanks Annie I just need to get my feelings of my ...   Dec 13 2007, 07:21 PM
- - LoveThem   I know how you feel when you talk about...others l...   Dec 13 2007, 07:48 PM
- - Victoria   I am still trying to work through my grief. I can...   Dec 28 2007, 04:30 PM
- - LoveThem   It has been a very short time since your loss and ...   Dec 28 2007, 04:53 PM
- - Victoria   Almost to much to bear. Its been alittle over 2 mo...   Jan 29 2008, 04:25 PM
- - LoveThem   I am so sorry to hear about Goose...it is just too...   Jan 29 2008, 04:53 PM
- - goliath   I can feel your pain in your words expressed here ...   Jan 29 2008, 06:51 PM
- - Victoria   Thank you both for your input. I know by your word...   Jan 31 2008, 12:12 AM
- - forduffy   I am so sorry to hear about Goose, Victoria. It se...   Jan 31 2008, 07:12 AM
- - Victoria   Last night was very hard. Goose got up at 2am and ...   Jan 31 2008, 10:53 AM
- - LoveThem   I don't have the answer to your question. Mayb...   Jan 31 2008, 01:48 PM
- - John B   Victoria, I'm so sorry for your loss of J-dog....   Jan 31 2008, 02:35 PM
- - myhrtisbrkn   Victoria, Ask your vet about the GIF (the greta i...   Jan 31 2008, 03:28 PM
- - forduffy   Victoria, I have no experience with fluids so I wi...   Jan 31 2008, 09:12 PM
- - LoveThem   Victoria: I just spoke with Joanne..the gal who kn...   Feb 1 2008, 05:46 PM
- - Victoria   Thanks so much for all your input. I have spoken t...   Feb 3 2008, 02:24 PM
- - myhrtisbrkn   Victoria, I'm so sorry, it must be so difficu...   Feb 3 2008, 02:45 PM
- - Victoria   Up date on Goose. He seems to be staying the same ...   Feb 4 2008, 12:02 PM
- - Victoria   I do look forward to coming back and shareing all ...   Feb 4 2008, 12:08 PM
- - Victoria   Up date on Goose. Goose has been holding these las...   Feb 25 2008, 04:30 PM
- - LoveThem   I can understand feeling overwhelmed...you have a ...   Feb 25 2008, 07:21 PM
- - Victoria   Thanks I does really help knowing other people und...   Feb 26 2008, 07:35 PM
- - LoveThem   Post when you need to talk. That's what this ...   Feb 27 2008, 04:01 PM
- - Victoria   Boy is today a ruff day. Goose is still holding hi...   Mar 4 2008, 07:30 PM
- - goliath   You are the most wonderful kind of friend that any...   Mar 4 2008, 09:25 PM
- - LoveThem   I am glad to hear Goose is holding his own. You ar...   Mar 5 2008, 12:12 PM
- - Victoria   I took this picture a couple of weeks ago. So you ...   Mar 5 2008, 05:16 PM
- - LoveThem   Victoria: I was not able to see your photo of Goo...   Mar 5 2008, 05:53 PM
- - goliath   Your pic of Goose and Dinky is as sweet as can be....   Mar 5 2008, 06:51 PM
- - Victoria   Thanks for fixing that!   Mar 5 2008, 07:30 PM
- - LoveThem   Victoria: This is the way your link looks above: ...   Mar 5 2008, 08:14 PM
- - Victoria   Update on Goose. He is still hanging in there. As ...   Mar 18 2008, 04:32 PM
- - goliath   Thanks for the update on Goose. I am so glad to h...   Mar 18 2008, 04:56 PM
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