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Chloe's Mom
post Oct 23 2007, 10:28 PM
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Can someone tell me how you go about accepting that a dog that you love is not coming home. My dog Chloe has been gone exactly 1 week today. Not only do I miss her so very much, I worry if she is in pain or cold or sad or lonely etc etc.

I've posted her as lost on every website around. I've hung posters all over the neighborhood. I've mailed out 900 postcards to residents in my neighborhood alerting them of her situation. I am obsessed. At work, I spend most of my time searching the internet, checking everything and then checking it again 15 minutes later.

I really believe that someone has her. She is a small dog and so very friendly. I don't believe she is lost or hurt. If she sees anyone, she goes right up to them.

I want her back so badly. What more can I do? Any advice? How do you deal with the pain. I've had pets lost to illness or old age, but never one that has gone missing. It is horrible - and she was just 2 years old.
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Chloe's Mom
post Oct 26 2007, 07:18 PM
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I just told my 17 year old daugher that I hired the K9 search team. She is upset with me. She said "I know the dog was an important part of your life but she was just a dog and you need to accept it and let it go". Please know that my daughter is a good kid and we have a very good relationship. She is just thinking rationally, and I'm acting crazy!

Boy, do I feel stupid for doing this. Too late to back out now. I think I am losing it. Everyone is going to think I'm crazy. Is it so wrong to love an animal so much that you resort to these types of actions?
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- Chloe's Mom   One Week Missing   Oct 23 2007, 10:28 PM
- - 5catsmom   Oh, she is adorable! You may be very well rig...   Oct 25 2007, 09:30 AM
- - Furkidlets' Mom   Barb makes some very good suggestions and I'd ...   Oct 25 2007, 12:58 PM
- - Eagle'sMom   Chloe's Mom, I'm so very sorry and my hea...   Oct 25 2007, 01:39 PM
- - Chloe's Mom   You are all so very kind. I am glad I found this ...   Oct 25 2007, 08:03 PM
- - paris   Hello Chloe's Mom. Just read your post on Eag...   Oct 26 2007, 04:42 AM
- - 5catsmom   Chloe's Mom, If I were you, and knew of a SAR ...   Oct 26 2007, 06:31 PM
- - Chloe's Mom   Okay, the K9 Search and Rescue team will be here a...   Oct 26 2007, 06:55 PM
- - Chloe's Mom   I just told my 17 year old daugher that I hired th...   Oct 26 2007, 07:18 PM
- - Furkidlets' Mom   GAWD, NO!!!!! No disrespect in...   Oct 26 2007, 11:32 PM
- - paris   QUOTE (Chloe's Mom @ Oct 26 2007, 07:18 P...   Oct 27 2007, 05:03 AM
- - Chloe's Mom   The K9 search team just left. I am using the K9 S...   Oct 27 2007, 01:38 PM
- - Eagle'sMom   Kim, I can understand how exhausted mentally and ...   Oct 27 2007, 02:00 PM
- - Furkidlets' Mom   Oh, dear, that's not good news. But at least...   Oct 27 2007, 02:17 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   Hi Chloe's Mom, Keep hope. A friend of mine ...   Oct 27 2007, 07:56 PM
- - Chloe's Mom   Two weeks ago today Chloe went missing. I've ...   Oct 31 2007, 09:43 PM
- - Mink&WillowsMom   Fingers crossed, toes crossed, prayers sent, light...   Oct 31 2007, 11:11 PM
- - Chloe's Mom   Chloe is back Home!!!!!! ...   Nov 1 2007, 12:56 PM
- - Furkidlets' Mom   FABULOUS!!! You're VERY lucky and ...   Nov 1 2007, 01:09 PM
- - katzen11   Chloe is back home !!! ( just got th...   Nov 1 2007, 01:37 PM
- - 5catsmom   Congratulations! I'm so happy for you bot...   Nov 1 2007, 01:56 PM
- - paris   QUOTE (Chloe's Mom @ Nov 1 2007, 12:56 PM...   Nov 1 2007, 05:24 PM
- - Chloe's Mom   Chloe is sleeping on my son's lap right now. ...   Nov 1 2007, 09:18 PM
- - paris   QUOTE (Chloe's Mom @ Nov 1 2007, 09:18 PM...   Nov 2 2007, 06:23 AM


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