Janey Options

[Guest_la77_*]

Sorry, guys, I'm new at this. I accidentally posted my message under someone else's topic. I lost my girl, Janey, and feel more like I lost myself.

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This post has been edited by LS Support: May 15 2007, 09:26 PM

[xrayspex]

We are changed forever. The world as we knew it has now ended. The reality that we lived in is no more and will never be again. If this sounds brutal or harsh it is not meant to. It is simply the truth...ugly as it is.

I lost two of my babies with a short three months of each other. The world I loved so much with them in it is now gone. Even writing it makes me feel like crying. But that is the truth I spoke of.

Now we must learn to live in the "new world". It is a world you probably despise right now and with good reason. The new world is empty and filled with want. I know I've sure hated and cursed it at times.

Enter the grief process..despicable as it is but entirely necessary for our survival in the world now dominated by the ever pesent realization that life "simply goes on" without that which we absolutely adored so very much!

It's only been a short couple of months for you. Give yourself some time Be kind to yourself. If you are anything like me (and from your post it sounds like you are) you are still in the horrible grip of sadness, loneliness, and despair, some of griefs many faces.

Don't let the skin deep out there tell you it's been long enough and it's time to get over it. Skin deeps are the people that "don't get it" when it comes to animals. They are selfish and shallow and have about as much personality as those pet rocks that came out in the eighties. You will heal in your own time. This place is filled to the cyber-roof with countless stories of woe. People like us who lost their furry loved ones and are really struggling to cope with that loss.

Come often and write much. Tells us about Janey. What kind of animal was she? What cuteness did she employ to have her way. Can you post a picture? Stuff like this kills us to do sometimes but that hurt has GOT TO COME OUT. It isn't healthy if it doesn't.

We are here if you need us.