Deadly Dental Visit, Is this Uncommon Options

[kimkalli]

I lost my little pug, Kalli, of 8 years on 7/2/2005. I took her in to have her teeth cleaned (2 Vets told me it would help her live longer). When she awoke, they told me she was vomiting, having diahrea, fever, possible infection, and was having bloody vaginal discharge (she was fixed). I don't know what went wrong. She has been put under before with only mild vomiting. Turns out my attempt to lengthen her life, killed her. I feel so guilty. If only I hadn't taken her. Who cares that she had tarter and her breath stunk. I loved this dog so much we had 2 vets, if I didn't like what one said, I would take her to the other for a second opinion. It's only been 3 days and I can't imagine another 3 days without her smiling face. She was our entertainer, best friend, companion, and my shadow. You could never have a bad day with her, she would just instantly make you smile when you would walk in the door. She slept with me, we shared a pillow. It's hard to open my eyes in the morning because I know her little face will not be there staring back at me. I am crying before my feet ever hit the floor in the morning. I could really use some support right now.

[Shimmer]

Kim,

I'm so sorry for your loss. Everyone here knows how difficult it is to lose a pet. The guilt you are experiencing is a normal reaction but please know that Kalli's death is not your fault. You were doing what you were told was best for your dog. Clean teeth are an important part of a dog's health and usually the procedure is safe. Unfortunately, sometimes dogs react badly to anesthesia. As far as I know, this is more common in older and large dogs. Since Kalli was neither (8 is not old for a pug), I assume that's why the vets felt comfortable recommending the procedure.

I can tell that you love Kalli very much and I'm sure that she knew (and knows) that. I had my Pekingese-cross put to sleep just over a month ago. He was my world and I'll always miss him. I know I'm going to hurt for a very long time. I also know from experience that it will get easier. I still cry almost every time I get home because he's not at the door to greet me, and I hate going to bed because it's so lonely without him. The memories are painful right now but someday I know we'll both be able to look back at our memories of our babies and smile.

For now, take the time to grieve and know that you can come here for support.

Sincerely,
Tracy