Crying, Its still so hard Options

[jennieg0607]

It is still so hard I cry everyday! I don't know how not to cry. She was so special and I just wish she was here beside me. My family is just so deep in depression right now. We did get a new kitten, my brothers kitty had 1 kitty and he was going to give it to the pound and I just couldn't let him do that! Every time I hold her I wonder what Kyra would have thought of her. And it just makes me so upset. I look at her pictures everyday and just can't take it. How do you get over all this pain? I just want to hold her again.

[SJ J & S]

I agree with everything Cheri has said.

I have been coming to this board for two years now and notice time and again how shocked people are at how long the grieving process is taking.

We are suprised how deep our emotions are, and how much love we have to give.

Be gentle and patient with yourself and each other, lots of hugs and time to talk and listen.