An Upset That Brought Tears Back, Missing Abby Options

[Abby's Mommy]

I do not wish to share this post.

[Del]

I am so sorry that your therapist brushed you off in that manner. That was so inconsiderate of him. I think you should seriously consider changing therapists. I believe that there comes a time when you have to just move on. I also believe that with any professional relationship, whether it be psyshotherapy or even a doctor-patient relationship, there's a point in time when that person can no longer help you. You need someone with a fresh and different outlook....someone who you can start over with and who may have a new and better way of treating you. It doesn't mean that the old therapist is no longer effective in general. It just means that your time with that person has reached a stale point. You need someone who can look at you with bright eyes and new thoughts.

Take care of yourself and know that you have a right to share what's happening in your life. And it's your therapist's job to listen and respect your insights and feelings.

BTW, I do think our loved ones who have moved on to another realm of existence do come back to visit us.

Hugs,
Carol