I Am Brain Dead Sue:re Clarify Cat Behavior Help, My brain's dead meat Options

[morningstarandev...]

Good morning Sue, Firstly thank you for you quick response and condolences....... Now I know I'll get better with {board manners and this forum in general... hey, it ain't easy typing with finger webbing my fngers ! I've got a few questions and this is a brief listing
~ In posting, for "pet grief" I do not see sub menu what button or menu tab do I double click on?? I mentioned my brain is dead meat most of the time I'm not even in my own body whick could do with some major renovation but that is another story
...instructions for morons please and email and advise when you have to work with me here I am a {gasp Virgin!}
~I've have questions about recourse I think my vet dropped the ball and Mrim shouldn't have died... I din't trust him whole .. and I sucpect this may have led to her horrific death.. please advise you can email privately at Netscape email account
------- I share this lap top with other at home and this subject is private personal for now as we are in grief in this home.
~Grief anger management, I'm snapping at other loved one and the cat I feel like monster.. any self help diy books for this?
I think this is enough for now as I am working at home and one of my email accounts just binged
thank you
Rebecca

[Saki & Freyj...]

Thank you, denise, for your lovely posts. I am found comfort in them, although I am sorry for your loss of Pete. I know it's been a long time -- but I am still sorry.

I love my vet. We lived here where we are now, and had to move away for several years for job reasons, and the vet we had THERE -- I never cared for her. Bringing my babies back home was a wonderful joy. I am glad they died here rather than there, tho you all know my real wish.

But my vet here... he doesn't deal well with putting them to sleep. I like that about him. He handles the procedure well, but the emotional part -- no. He rambles and babbles and tells his own personal stories of loss. Some of his stories -- well, they ramble... but the act of pts upsets him so, and it is so clear that it hurts him -- there is some comfort in that. At the same time, he'll be the first one to tell you "you know its getting close to time..." To which, I have replied "SHUT up! It is not!!!" Knowing full and well he is right. I feel like he cares for my animals, their comfort and well being...

If you don't like your vet, find a new one...