hi, without being there looking over your shoulder it is difficult for me to pin down why this is happening.
please read this post regarding photo sizes
http://lightning-strike.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=4706this post talks about adding an avatar under your screen name
http://lightning-strike.com/forum/index.php?showtopic=5939if that doesnt work, send me your username, email address, and password using the Contact Page on this website. i will log in as you and see if i can see what's going on.
the photo must be a gif, jpg, or bmp file. typically this is the problem, that a file has been renamed but not actually converted to one of these formats. files size does not matter, but please keep it to about a quarter megabyte or less (250k) and 640x480 pixels in size.
if you mean a photo that appears under your name (avatar):
Your avatar must be no bigger than 128 pixels by 128 pixels in size. Uploaded avatars from your computer must be no larger than 50K.The following file types are allowed: gif .jpeg .jpg .swf .png.