Jude And Sadie, My babies Options

[SJ J & S]

Hope ive done this right because if i have you can see by babies Jude's on the right and Sadie's on the left.
The ten smiles are what i wished i could do if i only knew how to do it.
Hope we can still access the old site as i left my heart there

[SJ J & S]

OK I DID IT WRONG - DONT PRESS ENTER ON YOUR KEYBOARD TILL YOUVE FINISHED.
would upload original pic so im doing them on at a time - this is Jude
LOVE SUE

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[SJ J & S]

got it
and this is Sadie
Looking forward to seeing all the pictures of your fur babies
Love Sue Jude and Sadie
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[SJ J & S]

Not a very good pic of Sadie this ones a bit better but she looks soooo sad
this new system doesnt seem to like my scanned photos, shame.
Third time lucky

[SJ J & S]

i give up this site wont let me upload pics of Sadie eventhough there the same size and format as the last two, and Ians chewing my ear off about probs at work so the only thing i can think of is to start another conversation, maybe each conversation will only allowe so many pics
Jude hated having here photo taken when she was alive and allways ran and hid if the camara came out, how it looks like Sadie doesnt want you to see her lovely face.

See you all later when Ian stops talking
Sue

[LS Support]

hi, welcome... you are the first one to arrive

i know the pics have to be 200k or less, could that be it? check its size
and give er a try again. need to work out some bugs, hang in there. thanks!

i also upped the pics per thread to 10, bet that was it.

oh, and the old forums will remain there forever as well. save the link! if
you want to transfer your most recent posts here, feel free. unfortunately
the software change doesn't permit it

[SJ J & S]

Thanks for the info iwill try again
I love the cats eyes
Sue

[LS Support]

you can add your own avatar (the cats eyes) by going into your profile.

click mycontrols above, select avatar.

you can choose one of ours or add your own by uploading it

[SJ J & S]

Ok ive changed the photo from BMP to JPEG so i hope this will work, ive also changed the size to a smaller one so ive no idea what this is going to look like.
Jude is on the right and Sadie is on the left.

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[SJ J & S]

WOW IM SOOO CLEVER
my babies for the whole world to see

[Saki & Freyj...]

Sue -- What wonderful photos. Especially the last two!! Thanks for sharing!
--Jennifer

[LS Support]

yes, those are awesome pics!

[SJ J & S]

thanks for caring so much about your pets...

<.\|/ :::Dedicated to Tribble (feline) 5.31.83-1.1.96
<./|\

MD Cohn
THANK YOU MD Cohn for caring enough about US to provide this website and updating it

[Saki & Freyj...]

Hey Sue,

Where is everyone??????

In the past month since everyone died, I've developed serious abandonment issues. Actually, I kind of laugh at myself bc it really is true. So where is DJ and boyd and karla and nevmoore and the other regulars and the new people too? Where are you?? You haven't posted in a couple days. I hope you are ok.

I think it was easier to post on the old forum. You could just post-- none of this registration stuff. But I miss everyone.

--Jennifer

[SJ J & S]

Hey don’t panic im still here just had a couple of nights out, well actually we stayed in last night and had a drink and talked after a rough day at the office.
I’ve been reading the messages at work but haven’t figured out how to reply on another computer.
And I agree where are you DJ I love reading your replies their so spiritual.
I was disappointed that you removed the picture of Saki please try again,
Please don’t apologise for disagreeing with me ( re valium) it wouldn’t do to all be the same.
I personally am - a veggie, use aromatherapy and try alternative medicines,
healthy life style eh cept i drink too much and smoke.
I've added the birdie as my avatar seeing as the only animals left in my life are my birds in the Avery, at one time I used to have about 30 birds a rabbit, Ringo and my dogs Jude and Sadie. I know have five doves and one finch left and I wont be getting any more animals as they just die on you.
How are you, you’ve sounded a bit depressed or maybe even angry and I'm sorry I haven’t been able to reply sooner, we’ve just come back from a medium reading which will eventually be shown on Living TV , unfortunately we were not read but that was ok. Ok I'm lying I spent the whole night saying to myself go on girls get up there and keep pestering him and Jude hit him with your tail.
I've been ok the last couple of days although the 6th is looming fast and when I go to bed I just keep staring at the ceiling or out the window and cant sleep.
Anyway another long one.
Take care
Love Sue.

[Saki & Freyj...]

Well, you are certainly allowed nights off!!!!

I keep waiting for my anger. Anger usually comes so naturally to me. But there isn't any. (yet???) Tim (who is not an angry person) has had some. But as far as the grief stages, all I feel is the grief....

And I really have developed some really weird abandonment issues. I mean, they are not full blown serious stuff. But for instance, I haven't spent a night (evening) away from Tim since everyone died. I take care of my parents a lot, and often (before) spent at least an evening per week with them, but I haven't been able to. And I guess maybe I am kind of afraid to leave the house. Not for normal stuff -- work, shopping, etc. But if I can be here, I want to be here...

Which means, I probably should DEFINITELY get out for a night. And that makes sense too, how you phrase it, about excessive attention for Electra.

I am afraid of birds!!! It is my mother's fault. She was attacked by a rooster as a young child, so she was always afraid of birds. Then I grew up with her screaming every time a bird was near and I learned to be afraid of birds. Tim has joked about getting a parrot bc they presumably live for 70 years or so.

I am probably not a healthy person right now. I do that in phases (though I am always a smoker and drinker...). And I think here in the states, we are very different. Holistic/alternative medicines are growing, but mainly it is strictly allopathic/traditional medicine. As far as I know, insurance only covers traditional medicines (and not very well at that). And Americans love their pills and their treatments...

Anyway, I thought the other board closed 7/1/03 to new messages, so everyone should COME ON OVER.

Love,
Jennifer

[DJ - Edgar and J...]

Where am I??? Did you think I would LEAVE???!!! It was a long weekend here in Canada and it took me a day or so to get used to this system.

So I 'm back.... and flattered that anyone missed me

So let's all use this board and ease people's pain....

[SJ J & S]

Gosh i got confussed there i could see on the front that DJ was back - from her long weekend - but i couldnt find you. Hope you had a great break and the weather was nice (as if it wouldnt be in Canada).

Anyway seems ive posted so much that im now on my second page.

Jennifer try going out for a meal first, break yourself and Electra in gently. It took me four months before the anger started but then im used to burying my problems - thats why this forum is so great you can say silly things and not feel silly, although i do often go back and re read and think i wish i hadnt posted that, but what the hell were hardly likely to meet being continents apart, but wouldnt it be funny if we all went on hols to the same place and realised who each of us was!!! Your not going to Cyprus in Sept are you?

Love you Jude and Sadie sorry we didnt meet last night but i know your with me and thats great.
Love Sue

[DJ - Edgar and J...]

Just to let you all know... I hadn't really noticed but everyone seems to have assumed I am a "her" because I was Edgar and Jesse's "Mommy".

They had two Daddies, actually... Since they learned our "names" I got to be Mommy to avoid confusion. I am also the worrier, the one whose friends flock to for advice and the one at work whose shoulder people cry on... I always wanted to be a Mom - the stereotype of a "Dad" seem so..... less nurturing.

So.... My name is DJ - short for Don John. But my closest friends in childhood always called me DJ.

Several people have mentioned that my replies seem spiritual. I believe deeply in the nobility of the human spirit. That we are all on a journey as a family. Every time I hold open a door, give up my seat on the metro, etc - I am doing it for a member of my family.

Edgar and Jesse had a lot of aunts and uncles. They would love you all as much as I have come to. So I come on here for my family - YOU.

[Saki & Freyj...]

Oh, Don John, we ARE glad you're back. And YES I assumed you were a woman bc "mommy" is one of the relatively few gendered terms we have in the English language. And bc I am sexist and believe that men are less capable of expression than women and anyone so deep must be "female..." MY BAD.

A silly Saki story: In the few weeks before she died we kept going to the vet trying to figure out what was wrong. And one day, the vet tech kept calling Saki "he" i.e., she'd ask "Is he vomitting?" and I'd say, "No, **SHE'S** not." This went on for a couple minutes until the tech said "Is he -- I mean SHE ____?" And then I just bust out laughing bc I was getting so worked up about the (irrelevant) gender of my pet. My pets don't have gender. And they're sterilized...

Although I do have to admit: Freyja and Electra are pretty "girlie..."

Love ya'll...
Jennifer