Pet Loss Books, Dvds, Cds, Etc., religious, non-religious/spiritual resources to buy Options

[Furkidlets' Mom]

Here's a list of online ordering resources I happened across today, dealing with pet loss. For those of you who need reassurances from a religious/biblical perspective, there is much in this list of books, videos, etc. There are also a few less denominational selections, for those who find less or no comfort from mainstream religious perspectives. See petlossbooks.com

I haven't read any of these myself, so can't comment on how good they may be, but one I'm in the midst of reading now which I'm finding to be (so far) one of the best I've ever read, is Saying Goodbye to Your Angel Animals. Included are lovely exercises and meditations to help one deal with the loss.

For some other books (I'd ignore the pricing on this page, as I'm sure they can be found for far less $$ than what's listed here) on larger spiritual/ethical issues, as well as one or two more theological books on animals, please see page 1-5 of this list: animal advocacy catalogue of resources.

[Furkidlets' Mom]

Hi Beth,

I'm sure I will find it just as inspiring as you did! I find their style of writing, ways of presenting and viewpoints to be of a higher quality among the many authors of pet loss/grieving, where too many still consider animals somehow 'beneath' humans, even in their compassion for people's losses. The Andersons put animals on at least an equal footing....hmmm......but perhaps having 4 feets IS what makes for 'better than' 2 feets!! Yes, I'll have to get their "Spiritual Connection" book, too, now that I know that I can really trust the Andersons with my heart's largest hurts. So thanks so much for recommending these others! (I'd love their entire line of books, but not sure if I have enough room left here!....think I need a proper library!)

Yes, the missing of my kids is what's making me do all these searches just before Christmas. Though it's my 3rd already w/o my girl, it feels like only my 2nd, which I attribute to the numbness of my whole first year. That first Christmas w/o my darling Nis' was just horrid, with withdrawals of support from too many friends and family nearly killing me and adding to my sense of loss tremendously. We were absolutely forgotten by some (who later shared their personal tales of merriment with us in the face of our despair ), misunderstood and uncared about by most others, and now I carry those memories with me each holiday season, as well as missing my gal and guy. There is still nothing/no one much better to replace these memories, either, so it's a very hard struggle for me yet. And this season has seen someone I considered a good friend suddenly drop me like a hot potato, too, right before the holidays, adding to my sadness and losses.

Therefore, since those within my own, little circle have for the most part (or even totally) rejected my heart & soul in these ways, I intend to spend much of the holidays this year reading books like theirs, meditating and allowing my continuing sorrow to just BE however it will be. And should any joy overtake me at any moment, I'll allow that in as well. Hopefully, there will be some.

I also just took a one-night teleclass on spiritual connections with our furbabies (mainly departed ones), complete with a "personal communication" segment which I found very lovely, as both Nissa & Sabin came to me and joined their 'light beams of love' right within my heart, so palpably that I felt each of their unique energies inside me, just as I'd always experienced them when they were physically here.....so I hope to help create even more of these continuing connections over the holidays, to tide me through.

Yes, we were all SO blessed, and obviously still are, if we can just find ways to nurture these continuing connections. It's just harder when you can't express your love physically and get an immediate and equally-loving physical response back anymore. I'll have to work on that and see just how far it can really go...

Wishing you peace for the season and year-round hugs back,
Nissa & Sabin's Mom