Sassy Girl Still Missing, Lost without her Options

[Sassy Girl]

I am single and when I used to come home my little girl would be at the door when I walk through and I would pick her up and give a kiss and than the want was on. I want out and than I want in and feed me and I do not like this kind of food so what if I liked this morning I do not care for it now. She has this thing if she dose not like something she would try and bury it and she would keep it up for awhile.LOL It is so funny, she does not like people food,she will smell a piece of food than look at me like I was crazy for eating it and than start to bury it.

It has been almost two week's and still no sign of her. I checked the shelters and all of my neighbors have so kind and our looking for her on there walks. I keep looking at my patio door watching for her. I think the coyotes got her or did get hit by a car and just could not make it back where I could find her. She could still show up. I could really deal with it if I knew she was gone but not knowing if she is cold hurt and suffering.

I have learned my leason if she comes home or when I get a new baby it will be a inside baby only.

I really miss not having something to hug and pet. My mom has a small poddle and a kitten that adpoted her so I go over there and get my fur fix.

[Bonny'sMom]

Sassy Girl,

Cats are amazing. She may still show up. I did get the book Animals and the Afterlife. I am currently reading it and it is just wonderful. I actually am thinking about contacting an animal communicator now because I need to deal with the guilt of not being their when my baby died.

I know how gut-wrenching it is to not know. It's almost worse that losing your baby because you can't get closure. I hope she turns up.

BonnysMom

[Mink&WillowsMom]

A woman told me her story the other day and I just about fell out of my chair.

Her cat disappeared one day, leaving her heartbroken. Time went by, and she enjoyed the companionship of her dog, though she still missed her kitty. Three years went by and she decided she wanted another cat in her house, so she went to PAWS to adopt.

There, in a cage, was her lost kitty. Confirmed by a unique scar under her armpit. The cat looked well, had obviously received good care with someone else, and finally now, after THREE YEARS came back home with her mama.

Trust in your heart what you think Sassy's fate is, and keep open to the knowledge that she knows *precisely* where she is, whether this side of life or the other side of the veil. My heart to you, in July I too lost a beloved cat.

And I've since adopted another I found in the middle of the freeway. Sable had been lost for weeks, and despite my best efforts I haven't been able to locate her mama. So someone else's "Sassy" is asleep on my bed -- safe, loved, and warm. ~Kimberly

[oceanpets]

I lost Toonces in August. It broke my heart. My story is t*itled, Missing Cat in Maine Woods, over a week now... and a new one, " It happened again"... because IT HAPPENED AGAIN. My new cat, the one to heal my heart, which I believe I gave life to as he was sick when we got him unbeknowst to us and I spent a fortune on... happily though.... he is NOW missing for two nights so far. In an other state, where we have no coyotes.. but I'm not sure what's worse,... predators who made it fast or the thought he's stuck in a garage in the heat, or transported in acar, or lost (displaced)... so I feel for you... I"m in the same boat ... again!
I thought, as you said, that the next time it would be an indoor only baby. I tried for three months. It was hard after awhile, he wanted out so badly and I finally thought that I had to let him be free and a cat... now this. I did have a collar but not a breakaway kind, so I didn't put it on him. My only thought is that he's likely trapped or out roaming so no one would see the collar anyway.... I am trying not to fall apart as I did last summer but I did just cry for the first time tonight.
NO one else wants to really deal with it. The kids don't want to go searching... it's hard being alone with grief, even if people are here. Husband did redeem himself from last time minimizing it, but this time going the first morning to look... but now it's like he's forgotten that I'm hurting. I can't tell my mother, or my best friend really, I just feel like I can't answer questions or hear the 'It's okay' line... It's NOT OKAY.
It's YOU who give me comfort. IT's knowing that others feel the pain too, that's the soothing I need, and got before, and will give, and need again.
I am sorry for your pain about Sassy Girl... it's hard to sleep isn't it? I am soooo with you. I pray for your days to not be too heavy and your legs to carry you through your days. Mine get heavy and I feel disinterested when I'm in pain like this. I want kitty to come home and make it okay.
Sometimes I forget then remember and it's awful. Seeing the full food bowl is awful. Seeing cat hair around is awful. I want us all to have happy endings.
Take care.