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Posted by: ladywolf May 2 2011, 04:59 PM

Sigh. Just as I was learning to love the little dickens ALMOST as much as I loved Ladywolf and Poppers, he has disappeared. It's only been four days, but he was a homeboy. An outdoor cat in charge of maintaining order in the "hood", but he never left his own and the neighbors' properties.

The empty feeling is indescribable; i'm sure others in this section have done a far better job that I would. In fact, I who had so many words when Poppers and then Ladywolf were dying, don't even know what to say now. I feel like my heart is lying in a gutter somewhere, just tossed away.

This is very, very hard. I just lost Ladywolf last June. Words of comfort and encouragement will be much appreciated. By the way, Leopold was neutered months ago now.

Love to everyone--Margi/Ladywolf

Posted by: janika May 3 2011, 02:06 AM

Dear Margi

I am so sad that you are suffering once more, but please, please, stay positive and hopefully Leo will re-appear very soon.
I know that you have helped others on this forum with great advice, so you will know all the 'Avenues ', which you can explore. I am sending prayers and positive thoughts your way, and calling on the help of all our 'Angels' to help Leopold find his way back to his Mum.

Love and hugs

Jan and my Angels and Pixie xx

Posted by: Cheryl83 May 3 2011, 09:04 AM

Margi -- I felt a hard thud in my heart when I read the topic title I can't believe you have to endure more pain. It's just not frickin' fair. But, please, DO NOT give up hope. Please take a moment to read through past topics of missing cats. Hopefully, this will bring you some hope, as some that have been missing for weeks, or even months at a time, sometimes just turn up, or are found. I'm sure you've already thought of putting up missing posters, contacting shelters, etc. so I have no words of advice to offer you. All I can do is keep you and your precious Leo in my prayers and thoughts, and I will certaintly do this. Please keep us updated. I hope with all my heart that he comes back to you safe and sound.

Big hugs, Cheryl xx

Posted by: ladywolf May 3 2011, 09:10 AM

Thanks ladies, for your support. It's so wonderful to hear from you, I just wish the circumstances were different.. Sigh. I hope you both have bee well. I just made up a flyer, though there are only two bulletin boards in this tiny town. The shelters are, like, more than an hour away, so I doubt that he would have been taken there, but I'll call anyway.

All Love--Margi/Ladywolf

Posted by: ladywolf May 3 2011, 11:35 PM

I'm starting to go crazy in my hunt for Leopold. Tonight I thought I heard noises coming from the ceiling, and I almost went and grabbed a power saw to start cutting through the ceiling--then I realized it was probably just mice. This is so much worse than losing a pet to a known form of death...

Thanks for hearing out my craziness--

Margi/Ladywolf

Posted by: janika May 4 2011, 01:29 AM

Dear Margi

Do you have anyone to help you in your search? I'm sure that you will have checked out all the obvious places, but as we know, cats can end up in some very bizarre places. Do you have local radio, that could put out a 'missing' report for you, and of course the local, newspapers. The more people who know, the more chance of him being found.
Please stay positive, dear Margi. I know that's hard when you will be feeling so desperate but it will help you to focus and remain 'sane'.
Thoughts and prayers are with you both.

Hugs
Jan and my Angels and Pixie x

Posted by: Cheryl83 May 4 2011, 07:39 AM

Aw, Margi, you're not going crazy, it's a perfectly understandable and natural response. Getting Leopold's picture out there as many ways as you can possibly think of should be a huge help -- Leo is a very distinctive-looking cat, so you have this on your side. Knock on door to door with his picture and ask if there's been any sign of him. I hope you've managed to read through past topics on this section as there is a lot of useful information.

I will continue to keep you and Leo in my prayers and thoughts. Please keep us updated. Good luck.

Cheryl xx

Posted by: sad May 4 2011, 01:43 PM

Hi Margi

I hope Leopold shows up soon. One thing I have observed about cats is that it is not unusual for them to set up a "Plan B or C' by making friends with one or more neighbors. Sometimes they will go from house to house seeing who will give them treats or take them in. In fact one of my neighbor's cats last summer was going around doing the "homeless kitty" routine with several neighbors and we all felt bad and fed her. Apparently she was not happy when her original owners got a dog and now she regularly spends her days and nights at several "alternate" homes. I apparently am on the Plan C since I only see her in my yard a few times a week where my neighbor behind me and the one next to him see her every day. Hoping the flyers bring a response and you just find that Leo has been "time - sharing" with one of the neighbors.

Posted by: ladywolf May 4 2011, 04:06 PM

Thank you Sad, Cheryl, my beloved Janika--

I hope that what you say is true, Sad, and thanks for your input. It very well might be, because there's a piece of the puzzle that I had't shared yet. I live in a complex of tiny little houses that are all close together, and recently a meth-dealing thug sociopath, came to stay in one of those housses with his tweaker girlfriend and their SIX dogs!

Needless to say, Leo freaked out and took to retreating to the fields behind my house. But he hid out in one particular spot that has been empty all week long now. I finally called the landlord on the sociopath, and with great hostility he moved out. But he stills comes by to visit one of the neighbors every day with his huge macho noisy truck and at least four of those dogs in the truck bed.

By the time that Leopold disappeared, the sociopath and dogs were gone from the house, but not, apparently, from the common driveway So Leo may have just thrown his hands up in the air and decided to go find more peaceful digs...

I feel betrayed and violated that this person was ever allowed to stay here, and furthermore, that he is still around--because it may explain Leo's disappearance. Yet and still, I really want to find him!!! He'd actually be quite safe here now, as the dogs never get out of the truck...

god DAMN it. I spent the morning crying and now I am mad. Natural enough, I guess, two of the stages of grieving. And of course, I've been in and out of disbelief all along. I want my kitty back, in MY bed!!!!

Thanks again for listening. Yes, maybe my posters will turn up the other family, if that's what the situation really is.

Hugs from Margi/Ladywolf

Posted by: moon_beam May 4 2011, 04:18 PM

Hi, Margi, I just saw your post about Sir Leopold - - and am equally devastated. I have been thinking about you and Sir Leopold so much these past few days with an eerie feeling, and now I know why. I know it's easier to give advice than it is to be able to put it into practice when our hearts are the ones who are bearing the unbearable burden of fear when our beloved companions come up missing in action. If it's any comfort to you, the neutering does not diminish the "adventuresome", so he may be out on a "prowl" and will be back home with you before you know it.

Margi, please know you and Sir Leopold are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep looking for him, calling him, going door to door - - whatever you can do - - and I hope and pray that he will return to you safe and sound. And please do let us know how you're doing, Margi.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Lana May 4 2011, 06:01 PM

Hi Margi,

I'm really sorry to hear about your lost cat Leopold. My beloved 14-year-old cat Hobbes recently passed away, so I no how hard it is to feel that emptiness. But I admit I can't truly understand what you're going through at the moment. I've been wondering about adopting another kitten; but right now I'm feeling very insecure about it.

What I can say though is I understand the anxiety of having a cat run away. When I first got Hobbes, I was only about 6 or 7. She was only a kitten, maybe a few months old, all alone in a forest/park near my house. She was a stray, and when we found her, she was about to become lunch for an angry Doberman (who thankfully was being held back by his owner's leash). We picked her up and brought her home. Around the first year or so we let her out so she could hunt and explore. She one day met a tomcat and became pregnant. We could not afford to have her fixed at the time and we didn't feel comfortable with letting her out anymore so she became a housecat. She later had to have a hysterectomy because of a dangerous infection/inflammation and because of that and other reasons, she became more sedentary and we had to keep her inside.

Occasionally, especially when she didn't quite know us yet, she'd run off somewhere and we wouldn't be able to find her. It got to the point where she disappeared for nearly two weeks at a time. But somehow, she always found her way home and she always wanted back in. She'd even proudly bring us her kill (maybe a field mouse) as a token of affection or gratitude.

If your Leopold is as smart, gallant and strong as our Hobbes was (and by what you've said he certainly sounds like he is), then I'm sure he'll happily come back home. He may even bring you a little gift.

Posted by: janika May 5 2011, 04:33 AM

Dear Margi


I think you could be right, and Leo has decided to maybe keep a low profile for the time being. I'll bet you, he's keeping watch on the situation, and waiting for the undesirables to finally quit his 'Hood'. I'm sure that he will return when he is good and ready.
Poor you, you certainly have had to deal with some rotten neighbours these last few years.

Keep busy and positive Margi. I'll keep checking in on here, and as always I send love and hugs.
Massive LICK from Pixie the Giant .

Please keep us posted.
Jan and my Angels and Pixie xx

Posted by: ladywolf May 5 2011, 05:16 PM

Yes, Jan, I've had TERRIBLE misfortune with the folks who have stayed in that one charming little cottage (which is only ten feet away from my house). I don't know what kind of karma it has or why, but it attracts derelicts, schizophrenics, incessant babblers, druggies, and now, the sociopath...

And Lana, thanks for your story and your good suggestions. Your Hobbes sounds like a very lucky and brave little girl. Moon-Beam, love as always.

More information. Leopold was apparently observed lolling around on a front porch yesterday morning, at a tiny farm not far from me. The folks thought that he had been on the back porch for the night, too. They are very nice, said they would try feeding him and capturing him for me--but I haven't heard anything about that yet. I went out with a flashlight and called and called and called around their property last night (they live right on the road), but no sign of the little booger...

I so appreciate your postings, they ARE giving me hope. I confess that I really do not understand how he could be staying away from his home like he is, but he's an odd boy. Aren't they all? I was vastly relieved to discover that he is still alive, but now I am pissed at him for staying away--and so close by, too. I don't know what else I can do now except wait, hope that he sticks around that farm, and that they are able to lure him into a cage for me. Then I can take him home and at least give him the CHOICE of staying or going on walkabout again.

CATS!!!

Love--Margi/Ladywolf

Posted by: sad May 5 2011, 06:57 PM

Margi
That is WONDERFUL news that he has been seen and doing well. It does appear he is staying away until things calm down at home. Don't take it personally. Cats are very smart and know when some situation does not feel safe and with the former neighbor hanging around i can see where he might want to keep a low profile for now. I was concerned when you said that you had been the one to turn the guy in to the landlord and hope he does not know it was you or that Leopold is your cat since that could be dangerous with a sociopath. Any Leo is still a young cat-so this is probably part self preservation and part adventure in his mind maybe. But I am sure he is missing you. Hopefully they will see him again soon and let you know or be able to catch him for you.

Posted by: moon_beam May 6 2011, 04:10 PM

Hi, Margi, this is very good news that Sir Leopold has been sighted alive and well. And hanging out on a farm means a good food supply as well until he feels safe / ready to come home to you. Maybe there is a little lady at the farm who has caught his eye??? Remember - - he's also pining for Ginger. But I know how much you miss him, my friend, and I hope he comes to his senses and realizes "there's no place like home."

Thank you so o o o very much for letting us know that Sir Leopold is okay. Please know you both are in my thoughts and prayers that you will be reunited with one another very very very very - - - soon.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: ladywolf May 6 2011, 04:21 PM

I HOPE it was Leopold that they saw those couple of times, because he has disappeared from that farm and hasn't been seen again. So I'm still deeply worried.

Yes, Moon_Beam, he is pining for Ginger, big-time. So am I. For those of you who don't know, Ginger was my next-door neighbor's cat and she and Leopold had a very deep bond. They would roll around together twelve hours a day--and then one day about six weeks ago, she suddenly got sick and died. She too was only a year old! Leopold has been bereft without her, and I have been feeling bereft FOR him. It's truly been a tragedy for our little "family" unit in the neighborhood.

So Leopold has had a lot on his plate recently, and so have I. Wherever he is, I wish he would realize how much I love him and miss him and NEED him..........and come HOME!!!!!!

Thanks, moon_beam, as ever, for your blessed support. And thanks to all of the others of you who have posted in this thread--it means a lot to me. As before, when I was here posting ALL THE TIME around the times of my two dogs' deaths, I feel not so alone with everything with this amazing Forum to turn to. Thanks, pals!

Hugs from Margi/Ladywolf

Posted by: moon_beam May 7 2011, 03:07 PM

Hi, Margi, I wish there was something I could do for you to help you through this horrible waiting for Sir Leopold to come back home. I wish I could be there with you to go out searching for him. I so wish he would come home to you letting you know that he will never roam away from you again.

Please, please know that you and your precious Sir Leopold are in my thoughts and prayers that you both will be reunited again - - immediately if not sooner. Please let us know how you're doing and how things are going. I promise you, my friend, you are NOT alone.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: ladywolf May 8 2011, 07:54 PM

Well, still no sign of Leopold around here. It's been 9 days now, and I am gravely worried. Thanks, as always, for your support, with special thanks to Moon_beam,

I'm going to make up a new poster tomorrow: $100 Reward for Return of Lost Cat, no questions asked. Leopold, darnnit now, is a purebred Bengal cat, and even though he didn't make the cut as a breeder cat, he is extraordinarily beautiful, and I'm now beginning to think, among other things, that someone has stolen him. He's so personable, he's probably settle in anywhere just fine, so this is a real possibility. I know $100 isn't a lot, but I think there are people who steal valuable animals just IN ORDER to collect rewards, so I guess it's worth a try.

I am continuously sad; just can't shake the feeling. I feel violated by that ***hole who barged in and ruined our peaceful little neighborhood and my cat's equanimity, and continues to do so on a regular basis. (He pulled in here at least four times last night in his huge macho truck, radio blaring, to visit a neighbor. I don't get what that neighbor Tommy sees in him, except that they both deal pot.) Anyway, I feel betrayed, and still miss Leo terribly, though I'm beginning to get used to the idea that I may never see him again, sad as it is.

Big hugs from Margi and Spiritwolf

Posted by: moon_beam May 9 2011, 02:40 PM

Hi, Margi, I am so o o o o sorry that your precious Leopold has not come home yet, and no current sightings of him. This is indeed very troubling, and my heart is aching right along with yours. Rewards are helpful, sometimes - - they certainly can't hurt. Make sure the reward is for safe return of Leopold only.

Please don't give up on getting him back, Margi. Keep looking and calling for him - - I do understand how hopeless your heart can get to feel with every hour of every day passing and no Sir Leopold appearing. Margi, please know you and your precious Leopold are frequently in my thoughts and prayers every day that you will be reunited much sooner than later, and please do let us know how things are going.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Cheryl83 May 10 2011, 07:08 AM

Margi, everytime I log onto the forum I'm hoping and praying for some good news. I'm so sorry it hasn't come yet. But please keep trying. We're all right there with you in spirit --- searching with you, calling his name, and wishing for his safe return. I hope the reward helps.

Oh, Leo, please return home to your Mom -- she is very worried about you and loves you very much!!! In fact, this whole forum has also fallen in love with you. So, be a good boy and put all of our minds at ease.

Big hugs, Cheryl xx

Posted by: ladywolf May 10 2011, 09:27 PM

Cheryl (and everyone)--

Your reply made me cry, but they were tears I needed to shed! To think that this whole Forum is in love with my baby boy and is pulling for us is just so sweet!

Am I crazy? I am already thinking of calling the Bengal breeder to see if he has another "reject" kitten he would give to me for free, as he did with Leopold. I can't stand the empty house. If Leo never does come home, well, then, I would have someone new to love and tear my hair out over, and if he does come home, he would have a new, constant playmate to torture--kind of a replacement for his beloved Ginger. (Bengals play very rough!) I dread the thought of admitting to Larry, the breeder, that Leo is gone, but it is hardly my fault now, is it?

Then I think, "Margi, it is too soon." And then I think, "No, it isn't. I can't stand the empty house!"

What do you guys and gals think?

New signs are up around town now with the reward offered, but so far, no takers...

I cry every night when I pull in the drive and there's no sign of Leopold anywhere, and I'm sleeping very poorly because there's no soft warm body curled up in bed with me.

Hugs--Margi and Spiritwolf

Posted by: Peggy's Human May 11 2011, 04:06 AM

Dear Ladywolf,

I'm so sorry that Leopold is missing and that you're faced with this painful situation (and still having to contend with the people that were living in that house but still won't go away). I've been following your posts and have been praying that you and Leopold would reunite quickly. I'm so sorry that it hasn't worked out that way yet. Cheryl is correct when she said everyone on the site has fallen in love with him (and everything else she said is correct too!) and care deeply about you both. I still think (and pray) there's a good chance he'll come home again. Hopefully, he's just waiting for what he thinks is the right time. I once had a cat with wanderlust, who disappeared for a month. As you know, with cats, you never know when they're going to wander back in like they were never gone.

I think that if you feel that getting a companion to help you through this time and as company for Leopold, when he returns, is the right way to go, then you should check out the possibiities. We never know why things work out the way they do. The best we can do is follow our hearts. pray for direction and trust that we're doing the right thing when we feel it's time to reach out to offer another soul a loving home. Maybe there's a cat/kitten in need and this event is what brings you together. If you feel the time is right, then I think you should explore the possibilites.

You and Leopold are in my prayers and I wish you a peace filled week.

Take care of yourself.

Peggy (the human)

Posted by: Cheryl83 May 11 2011, 05:10 AM

Margi,

I know how desperate and lonely you must be feeling, but my opinion is that you should probably try to wait a little longer. I only say this because when (I refuse to say 'if') Leopold decides to come home, and he senses another stranger in his home, he may very well feel unsettled and decide to turn right back around. He will be feeling very sensitive, and will need familiarity and security, so it's perhaps not the best time to introduce a new companion.

But saying this, as I said, I do understand how you're feeling. And if you feel in your heart that it's the best thing to do, then you will have my full support.

Thinking of you and Leo,
Cheryl xx

Posted by: ladywolf May 11 2011, 03:01 PM

Hi Cheryl and Peggy,

Yes, Cheryl, you're probably right. Even though Leopold LOVES other kitties, he might react badly to finding an interloper in "his" house if he does return.
Comfort and familiarity WILL be very important to him, if he manages to overcome his fear of the dogs that were scaring him, but aren't there now.

I have a little bit more hope for this weekend. I read in an article about lost cats that cats can go FOURTEEN days without any substantial water. Thaat's why so many of them come home at the two-week mark, and this weekend will be two weeks for Leopold. Also, I will be home all weekend, which I'm not during the week, and a friend's dog whom Leopold loves will be staying with me too.

Keep your fingers crossed for us--anything could happen!

Hugs--Margi and Spiritwolf

Posted by: moon_beam May 11 2011, 03:24 PM

Hi, Margi, I can so imagine how lonely your heart and home feel without your precious Leopold. I do agree with Cheryl and Peggy - - give Leopold more time to find his way back home. And keep calling him and telling him that you love him and want him back home with you. And if you can - - continue looking for him. Take some treats or some of his favorite food with you so that if you do spot him you can entice him to come to you with his favorite treat - - and then perhaps you can find a way to get him in your arms and don't let go of him!!!

Margi, I pray frequently every day that when I log on I will find a post letting us know that you and your precious Leopold are reunited. Please know you both are in my thoughts and prayers, Margi, and look forward to knowing how you're doing and how things are going.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: ladywolf May 12 2011, 03:05 PM

Sigh, everyone--I came home today and "Lurch" as I call him (Chance is his name), was parked right in front of my house with four or five of his dogs in his truck. So even if Leopold DID come home, as long as the sociopath is hanging around with his dogs, there's no way that Leopold would be likely to stay...

I want this guy to get ARRESTED and out of our driveway. I suppose he was visiting Tommy, and so, had a legitimate reason to be here. Sort of. What a fiasco!!

Damn!

Margi and Spiritwolf

Posted by: moon_beam May 12 2011, 04:31 PM

Hi, Margi, thank you for sharing with us what is going on. I am so sorry that Chance is still making his obnoxious presence known in the 'hood. I wish that your precious Leopold could let you know that he is close by so that you could at least know that he is safe.

Margi, I wish I could think of a way of making that nuisance Chance disappear - - but I don't have that power. The most important thing is for your precious Leopold to feel safe to come back home, and that is where my thoughts and prayers are focused.

Thank you, Margi, for sharing with us the status of your precious Leopold. Please do know that you both are in my thoughts and prayers for a speedy, healthy, and permanent reunion.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Peggy's Human May 13 2011, 01:21 AM

Hi Margie,

I'm sorry Leopold hasn't come back yet and I'm sorry that you're having to deal with Lurch. I have an obnoxious neighbor that brings in the same type of people as Lurch. Then they ride their dirt bikes all day long, on my property and within feet of everyone's houses, so I know exactly what you mean about how invasive it is. In my case, the police won't do anything about it (they all went to school together and are 'townies', whereas I've only lived in this town for 8 years). It's amazing because my town likes to promote itself a 'high end' New England town and we only live about 1/8 of a mile from the very center of town, as the crow flies. It's amazing how these obnoxious people can invade our personal space, negatively impact our lives and nobody seems to have the power or willingness to force them to behave like decent people. Instead, they act like they're the only ones with rights and the rest of us have to suck up whatever garbage they feel like throwing out there (but God help any of us who treat them with the same self-absorbed disregard). I wish I could offer some advice on how to handle him and if I ever figure out what works, I'll share it with you. I hesitate to ask this but do you feel comfortable enough to talk with the police in your town? I mean stopping into the police station, as opposed to talking to them on the phone. It could be that they're aware of illegal activity at that house and may be willing to put some pressure on them and drive them off for a while. However, if you feel it wouldn't be safe for you to do that, then I withdraw that suggestion!

I can tell you that cats can go quite a while without food and water, as you already know. However, with Leopold, I'm betting he's good at catching dinner 'on the hoof' and finding a water source. Now that the nice weather is here, he can survive outside for a long time so please don't give up hope. I once had a cat disappear for a month (no kidding and not exaggerating), she came home after we had given up hope. She was dirty, skinny and bedraggled but she was home. She was a cat with wanderlust but she stuck close to home for about 3 months after that and never took off for that long again.

Please know that you and Leopold are in my prayers and I hope he manages to find his way back to you this weekend.

Please take care of yourself.

Peggy

Posted by: sad May 13 2011, 08:49 AM

I really hope that Leopold has found someplace to stay where he is being cared for until he can be reunited with you. As you said he is very friendly so I hope he has found someone kind to help him out for now. I agree that talking with the police is a good idea-about the former neighbor. If you can safely make it unpleasant for him to hang around the neighborhood than Leo if he is watching can feel safe to return. And yes your stories of Leopold have made us all love him and want him to return safely and soon.

Posted by: madi May 13 2011, 09:32 AM

Oh Margi, I can't believe I have come back after all this time to read such a sad post about your Leopold. A missing pet is so distressing, you just never stop looking and it is exhausting. It does sound like Leopold may have run off because of your pesky neighbours, cats will do that if their territory is compramised. All those dogs, gees, enough to scare any cat away. Just keep looking Margi, I wish I could help you, put out the flyers, check the pounds, the council etc, get the neighbours to watch out for him as well. I pray he comes back, I really feel for you Margi. Hugs from an old friend xx

Madi xx

Posted by: ladywolf May 15 2011, 06:06 PM

Thanks Sad, Madi, Moon_beam, everyone!

Unfortunately, tipping the police off to the illegal activities of this idiot might also get my long-standing neighbor Tommy in trouble as well, and I really like Tommy and would never do anything to harm him. Chance lives in the woods at night--he doesn't HAVE a house, so the only place the police could track him down for sure would be here, which would be way too risky for me. Chance knows that I detest him, and he WOULD take retribution on me. I'd be putting myself in grave danger, believe me.

So we're kind of stuck with the situation as it stands. Luckily, Tommy will be going away for part of the summer, and then Chance won't have anyone to visit in this complex for a little while, anyway, I HOPE.

The more I think about it, the more I realize how terrified poor Leopold must have been with all those rangy dogs running around. Leo is a tough guy, but no cat can stand up to six dogs. He also got locked into my storage building for the night before he split--yet another trauma inflicted on the poor little guy. If I was a self-respecting, independent cat, I think I would have left here too and gone in search of more peaceful, safer digs. I do believe that he is alive--just living with someone else who isn't honest enough to let me know. (My sign at the P.O. with "REWARD" on it has probably been seen by almost everyone in town by now. We all have P.O. boxes in this rural area, and have to go to the P.O. to get our mail, and almost everyone reads the bulletin board at some point or other.)

Ah, but my heart does hurt. A lot. This cat was more special to me than any other I've ever had, and I would have done ANYTHING to keep him safe and happy... Heck, I DID do something major for him--I called the landlord on Chance, and put myself in jeopardy that time too. It was all I could do, though.

Leopold, wherever you are, I hope you are being well cared-for and loved!!

Tearing up now--Margi and Spiritwolf

Posted by: Cheryl83 May 16 2011, 12:13 PM

Dear Margi,

Your latest post brought me to tears I was soooo hoping that I would log on to some good news. I guess all we can do is -- as you say -- hope that Leo is happy and safe wherever he is right now. I'm not sure why, but I just feel so strongly in my heart that he IS safe. I'm not just saying that to comfort you, I really FEEL it. I'm also not giving up hope that he still might wonder home when things quieten down a little.

I will continue to keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.

Big, big hugs -- Cheryl xx

Posted by: moon_beam May 16 2011, 01:53 PM

Hi, Margi, you are making the BEST decision NOT to call the police on Chance. I have been where you are and that's one of the many reasons why I moved out of the city into the country side as far away as I could possibly get from the "crowd" - - both for my safety and that of my furkids. I have no regrets but it did take a toll on me financially for awhile.

Like Cheryl I am keeping you and your precious Sir Leopold close in my thoughts and prayers that someday you both will be reunited. I am so very sorry you and Sir Leopold have gone through such a tribulation - - for you both have a very special place in my heart.

I'm wishing you a peaceful heart until you and Sir Leopold are reunited, and please let us know how you're doing, my friend.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: ladywolf May 16 2011, 03:31 PM

Dear Peggy (I'm sorry, I forgot to mention your name above), Moon_beam and Cheryl and everyone--

You know, I feel very strongly that Leopold is alive and well myself--in fact, I feel that he is living somewhere on my very own road, which is a short one. I haven't canvassed all the neighbors, though I have a few. Some of the houses are sort of imposing in that they have locked gates or long, long driveways--these places I've not had the courage to approach. But apparently behind one of those locked gates lives someone who takes in stray cats, and has a lot of them. There is no mailbox, so I guess I'll leave a note attached to the gate. I think Leopold is right on John Adams Road. I just FEEL him so strongly when I go out walking and looking, which I confess I am getting lax about doing by now.

it's so hard to grieve in a situation like this one. One doesn't even know WHETHER to grieve or not, since Leopold's fate is unknown. I'll start to cry, and then I'll get filled with determination all over again to "will" him to come back to his rightful home with me. Obviously, I can't "will him" to do anything, but I can try to hang on to the hope, which some non-animal people tell me it's time to let go of now. Bless this forum as a place where I can let it all hang out and know that I'll be supported. I feel slightly insane about all of this by now. It's just so damned sad.

Big Hugs from Margi and Spiritwolf

Posted by: ladywolf May 16 2011, 03:32 PM

Dear Peggy (I'm sorry, I forgot to mention your name above), Moon_beam and Cheryl and everyone--

You know, I feel very strongly that Leopold is alive and well myself--in fact, I feel that he is living somewhere on my very own road, which is a short one. I haven't canvassed all the neighbors, though I have a few. Some of the houses are sort of imposing in that they have locked gates or long, long driveways--these places I've not had the courage to approach. But apparently behind one of those locked gates lives someone who takes in stray cats, and has a lot of them. There is no mailbox, so I guess I'll leave a note attached to the gate. I think Leopold is right on John Adams Road. I just FEEL him so strongly when I go out walking and looking, which I confess I am getting lax about doing by now.

it's so hard to grieve in a situation like this one. One doesn't even know WHETHER to grieve or not, since Leopold's fate is unknown. I'll start to cry, and then I'll get filled with determination all over again to "will" him to come back to his rightful home with me. Obviously, I can't "will him" to do anything, but I can try to hang on to the hope, which some non-animal people tell me it's time to let go of now. Bless this forum as a place where I can let it all hang out and know that I'll be supported. I feel slightly insane about all of this by now. It's just so damned sad.

Big Hugs from Margi and Spiritwolf

Posted by: ladywolf May 16 2011, 03:32 PM

Dear Peggy (I'm sorry, I forgot to mention your name above), Moon_beam and Cheryl and everyone--

You know, I feel very strongly that Leopold is alive and well myself--in fact, I feel that he is living somewhere on my very own road, which is a short one. I haven't canvassed all the neighbors, though I have a few. Some of the houses are sort of imposing in that they have locked gates or long, long driveways--these places I've not had the courage to approach. But apparently behind one of those locked gates lives someone who takes in stray cats, and has a lot of them. There is no mailbox, so I guess I'll leave a note attached to the gate. I think Leopold is right on John Adams Road. I just FEEL him so strongly when I go out walking and looking, which I confess I am getting lax about doing by now.

it's so hard to grieve in a situation like this one. One doesn't even know WHETHER to grieve or not, since Leopold's fate is unknown. I'll start to cry, and then I'll get filled with determination all over again to "will" him to come back to his rightful home with me. Obviously, I can't "will him" to do anything, but I can try to hang on to the hope, which some non-animal people tell me it's time to let go of now. Bless this forum as a place where I can let it all hang out and know that I'll be supported. I feel slightly insane about all of this by now. It's just so damned sad.

Big Hugs from Margi and Spiritwolf

Posted by: moon_beam May 16 2011, 04:15 PM

Hi, Margi, thank you so much for sharing with us how you're doing. Putting a note on the gate with a picture of your precious Sir Leopold is a GREAT idea along with a contact number or your address so that the resident of the property can contact you. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that Sir Leopold has sought temporary sanctuary there as it sounds like he would be well received and taken care of. Please please PLEASE let us know what you find out.

Margi, I know how much your precious Sir Leopold means to you, and how deeply saddened you are that he is missing. It is hard to keep your spirits up when day after day his absence continues. But please do not give up looking for him, calling him, - - and searching for him. He MUST know that you want him - - ALWAYS - - regardless of how long he may be taking his time to come back home to you.

Please know you and your precious Sir Leopold are in my thoughts and prayers, Margi, and that I look forward to knowing how you're doing, and any progress on Sir Leopold returning home.

Peace and blessing,
moon_beam

Posted by: ladywolf May 17 2011, 12:57 AM

Sorry that one post of mine is in triplicate above--i'm not sure what happened, and can't find any way to delete two out of three of them!

Margi

Posted by: ladywolf May 18 2011, 03:49 PM

Well, Moon_Beam, I did receive a call from the man behind that locked gate, and he commenced to describe all seventeen of his cats to me in great detail , but he doesn't have Leopold and hasn't at any point along the way here. I was deeply disappointed.

And...I've called the Bengal cat breeder guy, Larry, to inquire about a new kitten. We talked for a long time about his kittens, and his parting words were, "Don't worry, I've got you covered." (What he does is raise Bengals, and he sells the "breeders" for a lot of money, but GIVES AWAY the ones that don't quite hit the mark as great breeders, which is SO nice of him!) He has another little male whom he thinks I would really get off on, and if he doesn't sell him this weekend, then he is mine.

So yes, I guess I've made the decision to go ahead and get a new fur-kid. This way, if Leo does come home, he'll have a built-in new playmate, and if he doesn't ever come home, I'll have a new playmate myself. Larry and I don't think that it will be a big problem if Leo comes home and finds someone else installed in the house. These cats are so rowdy, they really need other cats to play with, and I think that Leo would really get off on being able to torture a new kitten--big bully that he is.

So I am definitely not giving up on Leo and I never will, but I have an empty house and a hole in my heart and I feel the need to fill that hole at least a little bit. I am slowly coming to peace with this decision--calling Larry was a big step forward today.

I think that Leopold has been stolen. Larry concurs that this is most often what happens when Bengals disappear. It kind of goes with the territory of owning an absolutely gorgeous, totally unique cat that looks like a wild animal. Just too tempting for someone, probably. At least, if that's the case, he is probably being well cared-for in his new (indoor) home. (Because I have no doubt that if he was being let out, he would have returned to me by now...)

I feel a little ray of hope for the whole situation, thinking about bringing a newcomer into my home. I am very very depressed right now, and that can't go on much longer... On the other hand, remembering what a giant pain in the ass Leo was when he was young makes me feel a bit daunted, too... As well as the thought of all the costs involved in caring for a new one properly...shots, neutering, COLLAR WITH TAGS, etc.

Thank you all so much for your support and love, and thank you in advance for supporting me through this decision too!

Big Hugs--Margi, Spiritwolf, and SpiritLeopold

Just in case you're interested, here is a link to an article i wrote and had published last year about Bengal Cats:

http://www.environmentalgraffiti.com/nature/news-fierce-jungle-cat-meows-0

Posted by: moon_beam May 18 2011, 05:37 PM

Hi, Margi, thank you so much for sharing with us how you're doing. Well, at least you know that your neighbor cared enough to give you a call and, unfortunately, confirm that Sir Leopold is not a member of his "pride."

I'm glad you called to inquire about another feline companion, my friend. It sounds like Larry was very understanding and comforting, and I'm very grateful for this. I will look forward to sharing with you how this new journey for a new companion goes for you.

Margi, I truly am very, very sorry about Leo's disappearance. I know you haven't given up on him, yet still you need another living body to nurture. I hope you are able to embrace a new companion very soon.

Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, Margi, and look forward to knowing how things are going for you whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Cheryl83 May 18 2011, 05:59 PM

Hi Margi,

So sorry there's still no sign of Leo. I think him being stolen is probably the most logical explanation now. As you said, he is such a gorgeous and unusual looking cat. However, I do feel strongly in my heart that he is safe and being well looked after. And if he does manage to wander outdoors, then you never know -- he might just find his way home to his real mom. So there is still hope.

Margi, if bringing a new bundle of mischief into your home will help heal your heart in any way -- then I am definately all for it. You've given it time, and you've given it thought, and if you feel in your heart that it is the right thing to do -- go for it. You have my full support and I look forward to hearing all about the newcomer if/when he arrives.

You're in my thoughts, big hugs,
Cheryl xx

Posted by: moon_beam May 21 2011, 12:32 PM

Hi, Margi, just stopping by to say hello and to see how things are going for you. Have you heard anything from Larry yet about a possible furchild available for adoption? I hope life is treating you kindly, my friend, and will look forward to hearing from you whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: ladywolf May 21 2011, 01:12 PM

Hi Moon_Beam ad everyone--

Still no sign of Leo. Am absolutely convinced now that he was stolen.

Larry told me to wait a couple of weeks before calling him again--that's hard to do! Now that I've made my decision, I want my new fur-kitty now!!

I feel much better knowing that the decision is made, and that before too long, I will have another yowling little mass of furry psychosis to deal with in my house!!

Love--Margi and the Spirits

Posted by: Peggy's Human May 21 2011, 01:22 PM

Hi Margi,

I'm sorry Leo still hasn't come back but like you, I'm convinced he's living in someone's house and they're probably being very careful not to let him out. It's a very sad situation for you but at least you know there's a good chance that he's safe and well cared for (small comfort but definitely better than the options). I think it's great that you've made the decision to bring a new 'mass of furry psychosis' into your life. How wonderful of Larry to be willing to give you a kitten. Out my way it's rare to see a kitten or puppy being given away. Even a 'private party' whose cat accidentially had kittens expects to receive monetary compensation, even if they never bothered bringing the babies to the vet to be checked out. It's so nice of Larry to have 'you covered'. I'm excited for you and look forward to hearing of you newest family member in the coming weeks. Time is going to take forever to pass while you're waiting but it will be well worth the wait!

Please take care and keep us posted!

Peggy

Posted by: moon_beam May 21 2011, 03:15 PM

Hi, Margi, thank you so much for sharing with us how you're doing. Well, the good news here is that it's just two weeks, and you have a really good idea what to expect with your new little fur bundle of joy. And this will give you a chance to maybe better "prepare" for your new little furchild - - perhaps pick up some things that you would like to have for him / her that would help to make the homecoming (and home staying) a little easier, etc..

I know you probably have already done this, but I'm going to ask anyway: Have you checked with your vet recently to see if they have seen your precious Leo with a new "client"? It's just a thought - - for whatever it's worth.

My friend, I hope today is being kind to you, and I hope these next two weeks just fly by for you. Please know you are frequently in my thoughts and prayers, my friend, and look forward to knowing how you're doing - - and to sharing your wonderful news when you have your new little bundle of furkid home.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Cheryl83 May 24 2011, 07:34 AM

Hi Margi,

Dropped by to check if there was any news, but unfortunately found that there isn't. Just to let you know that I'm still thinking of you.

Big hugs, Cheryl xx

Posted by: ladywolf May 28 2011, 08:40 PM

Well, there's news now!! I presently have not one, but TWO Baby Bengals exploring my house and getting into trouble!

I certainly hadn't planned on taking two, and this is on a trial basis to see if it's what I want, but I already suspect that I will end up keeping both of them. They would be SUCH good company for each other, and would take a lot of the heat off me, because Bengals demand a LOT of attention. And this little lady and gentleman have grown up in the same house, and it would seem a terrible shame to separate them now...

So I am Bengaled again, and I am happy again. I think. (Ask me after I've received the five a.m. cat-in-the-face wake-up call...ARG!!!)

I still miss Leopold something terrible, and nothing would make me happier than to have his lovely face appear at my window, but somehow, I feel pretty sure that that is not going to happen. If it does, well, then, I'll have a whole GANG of homies in my house, and terrorizing the neighborhood!

Thanks for all your support, everyone, as I embark on this new chapter of Bengal-dom!!

Love, Margi, Lily, and no-name-yet little boy

Posted by: janika May 29 2011, 02:50 AM

Wow Margi, that is wonderful, and I wish you much 'Happiness' with your new Baby Bengals. Of course, the greatest news of all will be when you write that Leo has returned to stake his claim as Boss. Don't give up hope!

Love and hugs

Jan and my Angels and Pixie xx

Posted by: moon_beam May 29 2011, 12:07 PM

Hi, Margi, thank you so o o much for sharing your WONDERFUL NEWS!! Can hardly wait to see pictures!!

I do so understand the "bittersweet" of these precious additions to your heart and home. You know Sir Leopold will always have a special place in my heart as well. I share your loss, my friend.

I know your little Lily and her brother will bring you great joy, and I look forward to sharing all the "getting to know you" experiences you and your furkids will have.

Thank you again so much for sharing this great news with us, Margi. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and look forward to knowing how you're doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Cheryl83 May 30 2011, 12:23 PM

Hi Margi,

I had to laugh when I read your post -- your house must be MAYHEM at the moment with TWO hyperactive bengal babies! I do hope they're bringing a smile to your face and heart and I wish you all the best with the trial. I am still hoping in my heart that Leo will return and you will have yourself a little Bengal pride

Please keep us updated.

Big hugs, Cheryl x

Posted by: ladywolf Jun 2 2011, 02:37 AM

Oh, I am SO in love. Two kittens--what a fabulous concept and reality. I haven't had TWO kittens in the house since I was five years old, and my parents got me my first kitties,,,

So, picture time. The first three are Willy, the fourth one Lily, and the last one, the two of them together...

Posted by: janika Jun 2 2011, 05:04 AM

OOOOOH Margi, you're not the only one who's in love. They are absolutely adorable and I'm so happy that you've found each other. You've made me get kitten broody now, but oh no, Pixie would not tolerate any new additions of the furry kind. You'll just have to share yours with me and many other firends on here, who will also be ..... in love.

Love the names too. Please keep us posted, and lots more photo shoots please. Still not given up hope that Sir Leo will return to rule the roost.

Much love and hugs

Jan and my Angels and Pixie xx

Posted by: Cheryl83 Jun 2 2011, 08:14 AM

Do you hear that sound? It's the sound of my heart melting! Margi, they are both soooooo beautiful. I'm soooooo glad they've brought a smile back into your life. The two of them must be so much fun to watch. Margi, your Leo would be so happy that you've opened your heart to these two furballs, as he would not want you to feel lonely or sad.

Please keep us updated on their progress. I wish you all the best.

Cheryl xx

Posted by: moon_beam Jun 2 2011, 01:11 PM

Hi, Margi, thank you so o o o o o o oo o very very very much for sharing with us pictures of your precious Lily and Willy. Oh, my heart melts!!! And I am so o o o o o thrilled you are enjoying them. My heart is filled with MUCH happiness for you and your fur kids. Will look forward to sharing your journey together.

I hope life is treating you kindly in other ways, too, my friend. Please know you and your precious Lily and Willy are in my thoughts and prayers, as is your wayfaring Sir Leopold.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: janika Jun 2 2011, 01:19 PM

OOh Margi , I just had to have another look................ they are so beautiful. Please give Lily and Willy a massive hug from Aunty Jan.

xx

Posted by: sad Jun 7 2011, 08:19 AM

Oh they are so adorable. It is good that you have 2 as they will keep each other company. And if Leopold returns he can show them who is boss. I came across this cute video this morning and thought you would get a laugh from it. It is 7 things you should know about Bengal cats.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F_oQALXNnPg&feature=player_embedded

Posted by: Cheryl83 Jun 9 2011, 01:17 PM

How are the two bundles of fluffy mayhem getting on?

Hugs, Cheryl x

Posted by: moon_beam Jun 9 2011, 04:52 PM

Hi, Margi, just adding my "hello" to Cheryl's and hoping that life is treating you and your precious little feline "pride" kindly. Please know you and your precious charges are in my thoughts and prayers, and look forward to knowing how each of you are doing.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam