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Deanna
post Jun 18 2008, 07:39 PM
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HELLO PET LOVERS
I am new to this ~ I posted this story on the "new beginning" forum instead of the death & dying pet support forum.
Although, there were a few who noticed and helped me tremendously, especially, Goliath, Myhrtisbrkn, Sissycat & Jorge.
Thanks to you guys, I'm able to function another day, although my heart hurts ...I miss my lil' punkin' pie, Zoe.

I AM HURTING TO WHERE IT'S ALMOST UNBEARABLE. I NEED SOME SUPPORT ON HOW TO DEAL WITH MY LOSS.

I GREW UP WITH NO DESIRE TO HAVE A PET OF ANY KIND, HOWEVER, TWO YEARS AGO, A CO-WORKER OFFERED ME THE MOST ADORABLE WESTIE (PUPPY) THAT I HAD EVER SEEN. TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT, I FELL COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH THIS DOG (NAMED ZOE), I LOVED HER MORE THAN ANYONE IN MY LIFE ...SHE WAS MY SHADOW. SHE SLEPT WITH ME, WOKE UP WITH ME, WE PLAYED TOGETHER IN THE MORNINGS IN BETWEEN ME TRYING TO GET MYSELF READY FOR WORK, I LIVE CLOSE TO WORK, I'D COME HOME AND PLAY AND WE'D HAVE LUNCH TOGETHER ...I CAME HOME TO HER AFTER WORK SEEING HER JUMPING UP N' DOWN AT MY FRONT DOOR...ONCE I GOT IN...SHE JUMPED UP AND DOWN ON MY LEG UNTIL I PICKED HER UP (IN WHICH I DID ALMOST IMMEDIATELY), GAVE HER KISSES, RUBBING HER BACK AS SHE LICKED MY FACE. WE BOTH FELT THE LOVE AND AFFECTION FOR EACH OTHER ALL DAY EVERY DAY. AFTER DINNER, SHE GAVE ME "THE LOOK" THAT IT WAS TIME FOR OUR EVENING WALK. AFTER OUR WALK WE WOULD COME HOME AND RELAX AND PLAY UNTIL IT WAS TIME TO GO TO BED TO WAKE UP TO DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN. I NEED TO MENTION, I HAVE A LOVING HUSBAND AND TWO KIDS, THAT ADORED ZOE AS WELL, BUT NOTHING LIKE I DID. I WAS GUILTY OF GIVING ZOE MORE AFFECTION THAN TO THEM, BUT THEY UNDERSTOOD, THEY KNEW I WAS ATE UP WITH HER.

WELL, ON LAST THURSDAY (JUNE 12TH) OF ALL DAYS ...(MY BIRTHDAY)...ZOE AND I WERE HEADED INTO THE HOUSE AFTER OUR WALK, ( I ALWAYS UNCLIP HER LEASH ONCE WE'RE ON THE PORCH) ... MY NEIGHBOR HOLLORED AT ME THAT SHE NEEDED TO TALK. ZOE AND I WALKED OVER TO HER PORCH...ZOE ALWAYS WOULD STAY IN OUR YARD AND SHE WOULD FOLLOW ME IF I WALKED OVER TO MY NEIGHBOR ...HOWEVER, ZOE SPOTTED A SMALL RABBIT HOPPING IN THE NEXT YARD AND MADE A MAD DASH TO CATCH IT, RUNNING INTO THE STREET AND SHE GOT RUN OVER, SHE WAS KILLED INSTANTLY. I RAN OUT TO THE STREET, PICKED HER UP, LOOKING INTO HER FACE, SAYING HER NAME OVER AND OVER AND KISSING HER, PLEASE DON'T GO...BUT SHE WAS GONE. FROM THAT MOMENT, I CAN'T SLEEP, EAT, OR BARELY FUNCTION TO GO ON WITH MY NORMAL DAILY ROUTINE. MY FAMILY THINKS I SHOULD BE OVER THE DEVASTATION BUT THE ACCIDENT RUNS THROUGH MY MIND A HUNDRED TIMES A DAY. I HAVE ACCEPTED SHES PASSED, WE BURIED HER IN THE BACK YARD, I HAVE HER A BEAUTIFUL MEMORIAL STONE AND FLOWERS WITH HER PICTURE. I LOOK OUT MY WINDOWS OF MY HOUSE AND SEE HER BURIAL SPOT AND IT JUST KILLS ME. SHE WAS SO SPECIAL IN MY LIFE AND I KNOW THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER ZOE. I MISS HER SOOOOO MUCH, I AM CONTINUOUSLY LOOKING FOR HER TO COME AROUND THE CORNER OF ANY ROOM. PULLING UP IN MY DRIVEWAY FROM WORK IS THE ABSOLUTE HARDEST THING NOT SEEING HER ADORABLE LITTLE FACE AT THE DOOR.

I FOUND THIS WEBSITE TO POSSIBLY GET SOME SUPPORT, I WOULD APPRECIATE ANY.
THANKS IN ADVANCE



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post Jun 18 2008, 07:50 PM
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Deanna,

She was just a doll. Who could not love a face like that. I'm glad to hear you are doing a little better. As Judy said in another thread (paraphrasing), we take our baby steps forward, and we're allowed to take one backwards, from time to time.

Thinking of you,
Dayna


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post Jun 18 2008, 08:04 PM
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Welcome to the family Deanna. Though you found us through having suffered a loss of such a precious love, I am glad you are here to heal right along with us.

Your Zoe's death is still so brand new to you and it will take alot of time and tears before you begin to feel just a little bit better.

When Goliath passed away so suddenly and unexpectedly I became crippled and lost all desire to live. I couldn't even imagine living without him. My world was completey turned upside down and nothing seemed right. Over time I realized his loving spirit would never leave me though his body had persihed. Because of him and the lessons of love he taught me I became a better me. Though I miss him each and every day, my life is good again. Each day is an opportunity for me to share Goliath's love with all those around me wherever I go. I will love him til the day after forever.

One day you too will feel Zoe's love and the happy memories she left for you. These are her gifts she left just for you when she passed away that are stored in your heart. This kind of bound love can never be shaken and lasts til the end of eternity.

Tell us stories about Zoe, bring more pictures and share her love and what she taught you. The journey of healing is long. But you will find inspiration and a hope which leads to happiness. Reach inside yourself and you will find Zoe is very much alive and well.....She will always be with you.

Much love wrapped with warm hugs Deanna, wub.gif
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post Jun 18 2008, 11:10 PM
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Oh Zoe has such a sweet face. Just beautiful.
Glad you contiue to post here. It really has helped me. Even if it is a few words to Zoe. It just takes time and no one can make you rush the grieving process. I know if hurts so badly. You'll think you just can't go on another day, but you somehow manage to. Everyday is a day closer to seeing your loved one once again. You just have to keep remembering her sweet face and all of the great memories she gave you. When you are ready share some stories or more pictures. Would be glad to listen to them.
It WILL GET BETTER!!!!!

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kendrasmommy
post Jun 19 2008, 12:03 AM
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oh i am so sorry,when it comes to accidents and something dies i think its because god needs them for some reason,your hurt shows how much you cared.may god be with you,and bless little zoe,you both will be in my prayers.
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post Jun 19 2008, 10:31 AM
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It was really hard to read your post, through my own tears. The description of the love you shared with your dog is so similar to my dog, that I lost yesterday. Words can't even begin to describe it.

I just thought I'd offer you a cyber hug, and tell you how sorry I am for your loss. May we all heal in time.
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Candy's Dad
post Jun 19 2008, 12:24 PM
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Zoe looks so sweet. I'm deeply sorry for your lost. My dog Candy is going through cancer at the moment, but her sister Pepper was struck by a car 7 years ago and it was a heart wrenching loss. But now, years later, though I still miss her terribly, time does heal wounds and now I think of just the pleasant memories.

My deepest condolences for your lost.
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post Jun 19 2008, 02:25 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss - Zoe looks and sounds like an absolute sweetheart. Please don't listen to people telling you you should be getting over it - I have people doing the same thing to me, they simply don't understand.

My thoughts are with you x
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post Jun 19 2008, 03:09 PM
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QUOTE (Deanna @ Jun 18 2008, 07:39 PM) *
HELLO PET LOVERS
I am new to this ~ I posted this story on the "new beginning" forum instead of the death & dying pet support forum.
Although, there were a few who noticed and helped me tremendously, especially, Goliath, Myhrtisbrkn, Sissycat & Jorge.
Thanks to you guys, I'm able to function another day, although my heart hurts ...I miss my lil' punkin' pie, Zoe.

I AM HURTING TO WHERE IT'S ALMOST UNBEARABLE. I NEED SOME SUPPORT ON HOW TO DEAL WITH MY LOSS.

I GREW UP WITH NO DESIRE TO HAVE A PET OF ANY KIND, HOWEVER, TWO YEARS AGO, A CO-WORKER OFFERED ME THE MOST ADORABLE WESTIE (PUPPY) THAT I HAD EVER SEEN. TO MAKE A LONG STORY SHORT, I FELL COMPLETELY IN LOVE WITH THIS DOG (NAMED ZOE), I LOVED HER MORE THAN ANYONE IN MY LIFE ...SHE WAS MY SHADOW. SHE SLEPT WITH ME, WOKE UP WITH ME, WE PLAYED TOGETHER IN THE MORNINGS IN BETWEEN ME TRYING TO GET MYSELF READY FOR WORK, I LIVE CLOSE TO WORK, I'D COME HOME AND PLAY AND WE'D HAVE LUNCH TOGETHER ...I CAME HOME TO HER AFTER WORK SEEING HER JUMPING UP N' DOWN AT MY FRONT DOOR...ONCE I GOT IN...SHE JUMPED UP AND DOWN ON MY LEG UNTIL I PICKED HER UP (IN WHICH I DID ALMOST IMMEDIATELY), GAVE HER KISSES, RUBBING HER BACK AS SHE LICKED MY FACE. WE BOTH FELT THE LOVE AND AFFECTION FOR EACH OTHER ALL DAY EVERY DAY. AFTER DINNER, SHE GAVE ME "THE LOOK" THAT IT WAS TIME FOR OUR EVENING WALK. AFTER OUR WALK WE WOULD COME HOME AND RELAX AND PLAY UNTIL IT WAS TIME TO GO TO BED TO WAKE UP TO DO IT ALL OVER AGAIN. I NEED TO MENTION, I HAVE A LOVING HUSBAND AND TWO KIDS, THAT ADORED ZOE AS WELL, BUT NOTHING LIKE I DID. I WAS GUILTY OF GIVING ZOE MORE AFFECTION THAN TO THEM, BUT THEY UNDERSTOOD, THEY KNEW I WAS ATE UP WITH HER.

WELL, ON LAST THURSDAY (JUNE 12TH) OF ALL DAYS ...(MY BIRTHDAY)...ZOE AND I WERE HEADED INTO THE HOUSE AFTER OUR WALK, ( I ALWAYS UNCLIP HER LEASH ONCE WE'RE ON THE PORCH) ... MY NEIGHBOR HOLLORED AT ME THAT SHE NEEDED TO TALK. ZOE AND I WALKED OVER TO HER PORCH...ZOE ALWAYS WOULD STAY IN OUR YARD AND SHE WOULD FOLLOW ME IF I WALKED OVER TO MY NEIGHBOR ...HOWEVER, ZOE SPOTTED A SMALL RABBIT HOPPING IN THE NEXT YARD AND MADE A MAD DASH TO CATCH IT, RUNNING INTO THE STREET AND SHE GOT RUN OVER, SHE WAS KILLED INSTANTLY. I RAN OUT TO THE STREET, PICKED HER UP, LOOKING INTO HER FACE, SAYING HER NAME OVER AND OVER AND KISSING HER, PLEASE DON'T GO...BUT SHE WAS GONE. FROM THAT MOMENT, I CAN'T SLEEP, EAT, OR BARELY FUNCTION TO GO ON WITH MY NORMAL DAILY ROUTINE. MY FAMILY THINKS I SHOULD BE OVER THE DEVASTATION BUT THE ACCIDENT RUNS THROUGH MY MIND A HUNDRED TIMES A DAY. I HAVE ACCEPTED SHES PASSED, WE BURIED HER IN THE BACK YARD, I HAVE HER A BEAUTIFUL MEMORIAL STONE AND FLOWERS WITH HER PICTURE. I LOOK OUT MY WINDOWS OF MY HOUSE AND SEE HER BURIAL SPOT AND IT JUST KILLS ME. SHE WAS SO SPECIAL IN MY LIFE AND I KNOW THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER ZOE. I MISS HER SOOOOO MUCH, I AM CONTINUOUSLY LOOKING FOR HER TO COME AROUND THE CORNER OF ANY ROOM. PULLING UP IN MY DRIVEWAY FROM WORK IS THE ABSOLUTE HARDEST THING NOT SEEING HER ADORABLE LITTLE FACE AT THE DOOR.

I FOUND THIS WEBSITE TO POSSIBLY GET SOME SUPPORT, I WOULD APPRECIATE ANY.
THANKS IN ADVANCE

Hello again from Buster and Jorge, please don't forget that we are here for you always, I know you are hurting so much that I wish I was near to give you a strong hug from Buster and my self, May God Bless You and Sweet and Beautiful Zoe wub.gif wub.gif .
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post Jun 20 2008, 12:25 AM
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My condolences in your loss of Zoe. I know how painful it is to lose a pet since I just lost Raygan last Friday. But I had weeks to "prepare". Your loss was so sudden and tragic. Don't let anyone minimize your grief for your beloved pet!! Pet loss is painful and real. I think I've grieved as much or more for my pets that than I have for humans. Dogs love us and like us no matter what and that is a gift more precious than gold. They never say that our shoes are ugly or that our cooking stinks or that our socks are unmatched because they don't care about the superficial stuff!

I hope that each day gets a little easier for you.

Hugs, Alice

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post Jun 20 2008, 03:23 AM
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{{{{{{{Deanna}}}}}}}


Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.


I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.


I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.


When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.


I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die.








Tight Hugs and Much Love, Dear One!

Always,
Angel xoxoxox
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LoveThem
post Jun 20 2008, 08:26 PM
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That picture of Zoe certainly shows just how adorable she is and will always be. I am so sorry to read about the accident. For some reason, it was Zoe's time to go and if that is not true then the accident would not have happened. That's the reasoning I use to help me understand such things. So I don't have to torture myself did I make the right FINAL decision? Understanding that things are taken out of our control for a reason we do not know..has helped me cope with more than one loss in my lifetime.

It is devastating pain you feel and it will take time for that pain to not be so overwhelming. We all feel the same intense pain on our loss and that is why we understand exactly how you feel and also why we can truthfully tell you...you are not alone in what you feel...
we are there or have been there and some are going again....that's the price asked of us when we accept these babies and their unconditional love in our lives.

Whatever the time is we are with them, it is never long enough..for them or for us..but none of us makes that final decision that changes our lives forever. All we can do is love them and treasure them while we can and pray their time does not come soon.

Accidents happen so quickly...it is like a double pain..twice the devastation..but we have no choice but to accept when it is their time to leave..no matter how much we hate it...we hate them being taken away. They are a part of us and their love and memories will be with us forever...only the physical can be taken from us..and that, indeed, hurts so very very much.

We combat that hurt by forcing ourselves to remember the fun and happy times...the times our sweethearts would want us to remember because they would never want us to be sad about anything.

It may help to post more pictures, tell some good memory stories about Zoe, and one thing many have found helpful is just to post here a letter or note to Zoe...telling her your feelings and thoughts...after all, she is that angel now sitting on your shoulder and she is listening very intently to whatever you say.

Take care...I wish you peace and healing....and...it really does take time and we do have to work away the pain the best we can.
What makes you feel good to do or say is the right thing. There are no time limits. And the people who truly understand have no judgments.

I would love to see more pictures of Zoe.


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Deanna
post Jun 22 2008, 04:54 PM
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QUOTE (kendrasmommy @ Jun 19 2008, 01:03 AM) *
oh i am so sorry,when it comes to accidents and something dies i think its because god needs them for some reason,your hurt shows how much you cared.may god be with you,and bless little zoe,you both will be in my prayers.


Thank you KendrasMommy
Your comment and support means so much to me. You are one of the reasons, as well as, the other on this website, that I can go on for another day, for the pain to ease with each passing day, so I can begin to focus on the wonderful memories I have of Zoe and I together ...even if it was just her and I sitting on porch doing nothing ... it was... in fact.... wonderful.
Again, thank you to you and to the rest of the great support (Goliath, Myhrtisbrkn, Sissycat, Jorge).
I've said it before, I couldn't go on without you.
Deanna



****Zoe ~ I miss you sweetheart. You are FOREVER IN MY HEART AND SOUL.
I got you're message the other day, the beautiful butterfly landed in my lap.
I will always love you.
Mama
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Deanna
post Jun 22 2008, 05:06 PM
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QUOTE (LoveThem @ Jun 20 2008, 09:26 PM) *
That picture of Zoe certainly shows just how adorable she is and will always be. I am so sorry to read about the accident. For some reason, it was Zoe's time to go and if that is not true then the accident would not have happened. That's the reasoning I use to help me understand such things. So I don't have to torture myself did I make the right FINAL decision? Understanding that things are taken out of our control for a reason we do not know..has helped me cope with more than one loss in my lifetime.

It is devastating pain you feel and it will take time for that pain to not be so overwhelming. We all feel the same intense pain on our loss and that is why we understand exactly how you feel and also why we can truthfully tell you...you are not alone in what you feel...
we are there or have been there and some are going again....that's the price asked of us when we accept these babies and their unconditional love in our lives.

Whatever the time is we are with them, it is never long enough..for them or for us..but none of us makes that final decision that changes our lives forever. All we can do is love them and treasure them while we can and pray their time does not come soon.

Accidents happen so quickly...it is like a double pain..twice the devastation..but we have no choice but to accept when it is their time to leave..no matter how much we hate it...we hate them being taken away. They are a part of us and their love and memories will be with us forever...only the physical can be taken from us..and that, indeed, hurts so very very much.

We combat that hurt by forcing ourselves to remember the fun and happy times...the times our sweethearts would want us to remember because they would never want us to be sad about anything.

It may help to post more pictures, tell some good memory stories about Zoe, and one thing many have found helpful is just to post here a letter or note to Zoe...telling her your feelings and thoughts...after all, she is that angel now sitting on your shoulder and she is listening very intently to whatever you say.

Take care...I wish you peace and healing....and...it really does take time and we do have to work away the pain the best we can.
What makes you feel good to do or say is the right thing. There are no time limits. And the people who truly understand have no judgments.

I would love to see more pictures of Zoe.




LoveThem
Your words are so comforting to me ....you have helped me. I have been on such a crazy emotional roller coater, one day I am able to laugh, however, the same day ...I cry. I have now experienced anger and resentment of why was she taken away from me so soon and so tragically? Why? She was such a wonderful precious presence in my life. She had so much more to give and so did I. I am trying to learn, things do happen for a reason. I will, someday, come to terms with this, however, I couldn't do it without the support I have received from this site.
Thanks to you all!

Here are a few more pics ....enjoy ...she was adorable.

I feel so empty when I think about her being gone.
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Deanna
post Jun 22 2008, 05:09 PM
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QUOTE (AngelCareOne @ Jun 20 2008, 04:23 AM) *
{{{{{{{Deanna}}}}}}}


Do not stand at my grave and forever weep.
I am not there; I do not sleep.


I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.


I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain.


When you awaken in the morning’s hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.


I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and forever cry.
I am not there. I did not die.








Tight Hugs and Much Love, Dear One!

Always,
Angel xoxoxox



Angelcare,
How did you know I was go to her burial site and weeping?
This poem went straight to my heart and gave me a better insight of where she's at.
I can't thank you enough ...this is beautiful.
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Deanna
post Jun 22 2008, 05:16 PM
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QUOTE (zoodoctoo @ Jun 20 2008, 01:25 AM) *
My condolences in your loss of Zoe. I know how painful it is to lose a pet since I just lost Raygan last Friday. But I had weeks to "prepare". Your loss was so sudden and tragic. Don't let anyone minimize your grief for your beloved pet!! Pet loss is painful and real. I think I've grieved as much or more for my pets that than I have for humans. Dogs love us and like us no matter what and that is a gift more precious than gold. They never say that our shoes are ugly or that our cooking stinks or that our socks are unmatched because they don't care about the superficial stuff!

I hope that each day gets a little easier for you.

Hugs, Alice

Zoodoctoo,
Thank you for your support. You're right, my loss is terribly painful. I had no time to prepare, we were coming home from our long evening walk (that we both enjoyed sooo much) to ... within 15 minutes afterwards..she was taken from me.
I is definately a healing process to come to terms to why, or how this could happen to her and me.
I miss her ...thank you for your understanding of my feelings.



****Buster and Jorge ~ THANK YOU
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Deanna
post Jun 22 2008, 05:21 PM
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QUOTE (Candy's Dad @ Jun 19 2008, 01:24 PM) *
Zoe looks so sweet. I'm deeply sorry for your lost. My dog Candy is going through cancer at the moment, but her sister Pepper was struck by a car 7 years ago and it was a heart wrenching loss. But now, years later, though I still miss her terribly, time does heal wounds and now I think of just the pleasant memories.

My deepest condolences for your lost.



My heart goes out to you, as well Candy's Dad
I read your story yesterday morning of Candy's final moments, I couldn't even reply.
I know there was nothing I could say to make you feel better, although, you know we are all here for you.
Again, thank you for your understanding of my feelings.
Deanna

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Deanna
post Jun 22 2008, 05:23 PM
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QUOTE (RhiRy @ Jun 19 2008, 03:25 PM) *
I am so sorry for your loss - Zoe looks and sounds like an absolute sweetheart. Please don't listen to people telling you you should be getting over it - I have people doing the same thing to me, they simply don't understand.

My thoughts are with you x


Thank you RhiRy,
Zoe was definately an absolute sweetheart.
Thank you for your understanding of my feelings.
Your comment means so much.
Deanna
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post Jun 22 2008, 07:15 PM
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QUOTE (Deanna @ Jun 22 2008, 05:09 PM) *
Angelcare,
How did you know I was go to her burial site and weeping?
This poem went straight to my heart and gave me a better insight of where she's at.
I can't thank you enough ...this is beautiful.


Dearest Deanna, I had that feeling from all you've told about your precious Fur Child Zoe. You're so very welcome and it makes my heart soar knowing that my message to you brought some small comfort, Dear One.

Guess what else I know? Not only did Zoe not die, but also she is with you at this very moment. Right by your side and just a breath away. Deanna, a breath away is not far at all to where Zoe is. Shhh ... Be very still and you will feel and hear her whispers to you. Zoe is that very close by indeed.

Click on Zoe's photograph to view and listen. Then you will know all I say is true, Dearest Deanna.




"To Where You Are"


Who can say for certain maybe you're still here. I feel you all around me. Your memory's so clear.
Deep in the stillness, I can hear you speak. You're still an inspiration. Can it be? That you are mine. Forever Love. And you are watching over me from up above!


Fly me up to where you are beyond the distant star. I wish upon tonight to see you smile!
If only for a while to know you're there. A breath away's not far to where you are.


Are you gently sleeping here inside my dream? And isn't faith believing all power can't be seen.
As my heart holds you just one beat away, I cherish all you gave me everyday!


'Cause you are my Forever Love watching me from up above.
And I believe that Angels breathe and that love will live on and never leave!


Fly me up to where you are, beyond the distant star! I wish upon tonight to see you smile.
If only for a while to know you're there. A breath away's not far to where you are!


I know you're there! A breath away's not far to where you are!


See? There she is. Right by your side showering you with kisses, Deanna! And she will never, never, ever leave you. She loves you so much and knows how much you love her.

Many Tight Hugs and Much Love to You and Your Fur Child Zoe.

Always,
Angel xoxoxox
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post Jun 22 2008, 07:19 PM
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Deanna, I am so sorry to read of your loss of your sweet girl Zoe. You found a wonderful place full of animal lovers here. As you read the stories here, you will see that we all shared a special bond with our babies. We know the unconditional love that these furry creatures give us. We are all so fortunate to have shared such wonderful memories with our babies. Unfortunately, we also share the pain of losing them. Some of us have lost our loved ones to illness, others like yourself through accidents.

I know you are thinking of Zoe and missing her so. Only time can ease the pain you are feeling. Grief is a process and is filled with ups and downs. But I hope that you will soon feel at peace with your loss. And I hope that we can offer you comfort and hope during this difficult time. Take care, Nancy
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