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Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 2 2011, 02:31 PM

Many of you have been following Sable's saga. (In Lost & Missing, "Do Finders Have to be Keepers?") This morning I took her to the vet's to let her go. Such a sweet girl. Three years ago I found her on the freeway, near death, stranded in the grassy median. Brought her home, and after a week of thinking it over, she decided to live. Fattened up to 10 pounds, though remained with weak kidneys, and arthritis in her shoulder. She purred me to sleep, and purred me awake, always sleeping right next to my head. After about a year, she seemed to 'wake up' a bit, and get off the bed to sit in the livingroom, or go lie in the sun on the back porch.

Over this winter, she was back to sleeping about 23 hours a day. I'd been noticing a decline, but of course it's always gradual. Last week I suddenly saw that she was really winding down, getting ready to go. I realized she'd stopped eating. Still, she purred. She and I talked about euthanasia, and I asked her to tell me when she was ready. Last night I got home from work, and through the evening every so often she'd let out a meow/howl of pain. She was able to get to sleep again around midnight, so I was able to get sleep last night, then first thing this morning took her to the vet.

I'm almost finished digging her grave. I'm grateful the sun is shining, since it's still below freezing. That's my biggest concern, she hated being cold. I know she's out of her body now, but still. She's wrapped in a fleece blanket, and has a little cardboard coffin box too.

It took a long time for us to bond, but we did. My love for her was quiet and full of compassion. I loved her morning serenades, purring me awake. For pics, and to read more of her story, click here: Sable's Story Part I and Sable's story part II.

Posted by: janika Feb 2 2011, 03:04 PM

Dear Mink&WillowsMom

Your dear Sweet Sable is at peace now and she has known such love and devotion these last 3 years she shared with you. I'm so glad that you found each other and that she was able to experience your love for her, and that eventually you both shared a wonderful 'bond'. I send my thoughts and prayers to you as I know the sadness you are feeling.

Hugs
Jan and my Angels and Pixie xx

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 2 2011, 03:08 PM

Now I'm at that last step of closing up the box and taking her outside to bury her. But I can't quite give up petting her again -- I want just a few minutes more. She's on my lap, in her box. Looks for all the world like she's just asleep. Almost as if I can hear her purring. She's finally letting me groom her a little -- dang if she didn't have dreads. Weirdest fur I've ever seen on a cat. Just a few minutes more...

Posted by: moon_beam Feb 2 2011, 03:27 PM

Hi, Mink&Willow'sMom, please permit me to offer you my sincerest sympathies in the loss of your beloved Sable. Losing a beloved companion is never easy regardless of the circumstances or how long we have been blessed with the privilege of their company. Euthanasia is the last gift of love we can give to our beloved companions -- at great sacrifice to ourselves - - so that they can be healed and restored to their former youthfulness in the company of the angels.

Mink&Willow'sMom, I do know the journey you and Sable have traveled over the last several months, and even though in your heart you know you did the very best for your precious Sable by releasing her from her failing physical body there is still the reality of not having her physical presence with you to adjust to now. Please know each of us are here for you to help you as you travel your adjustment grief journey - - we are here for you, with you, and beside you every step of your journey for as long and as often as you need us.

I can so relate to your wanting to just keep petting her. I had that privilege with both my Oslo and Abbygayle, and it was very comforting also for my Noah to be able to give his last respects to his big doggy brother and beautiful baby sister. I was able to do the very last thing for them before surrendering them to the vet for the last time for them to be cremated: I had the honor of wrapping their precious physical bodies for the last time. Just one more minute - - for the hours, days, weeks, months, years of our earthly journey are now in our hearts to cherish with our eternal bond of love.

Mink&Willow'sMom, thank you so much for sharing with us your precious Sable. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and please do let us know how you're doing whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Cheryl83 Feb 2 2011, 03:38 PM

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful Sable. I just read over your other thread -- what a journey you two have been on together. And the journey has not ended, for her transition to the angels is all part of it. I hope you can find comfort in all the love you gave her, and the fact that the last few years of her life were wonderful, all because of you.

Take as much time as you need saying goodbye to her earthly remains. I too understand how you feel. When we got our Daisy's little body back from the vet, I sat with her for hours, stroking her, looking at her and memorising her, crying onto her. As you said, it helped that she looked so peaceful -- like she had just gone into a peaceful sleep.

Thinking of you.
Cheryl xx

Posted by: Diamond-Bear Feb 2 2011, 08:55 PM

Hello, Mink&WillowsMom.

Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your dear little Sable. It is wonderful that you were able to extend her life and make her last three years so comfortable!

I understand not wanting to say, "Goodbye," but remember it isn't really, "Goodbye." Things are just different now, as her spirit will continue to live on in you.

Please know you are in my thoughts.

Hugs,
Teresa

Posted by: JoanneL Feb 2 2011, 09:44 PM

So sorry about Sable's death. She was so lucky to have you to love her and care for her and to know when it was her time to be released from her pain. I know you will miss her but know how many people are here for you. It is certainly not unusual to want to spend more time with her after she has died. Think of all the rituals we have when humans die. We certainly spend time with viewings, wakes, etc. There is no such ritual when a pet dies.
I hope you will be able to sleep tonight knowing that your Sable is at rest.
Joanne

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 2 2011, 10:23 PM

Rereading her story, I'm reminded the first part of her tale is on another thread, found at Lost or Missing "Found a Kitty". This part tells the tale of how I found her, and has more nice pictures.

Luna sat quietly nearby as I buried Sable; I was immensely grateful for her support.
Rohan is in my lap, seeking and offering comfort.
Willow, who has been sleeping on the bed with Sable, spent this afternoon sleeping atop the kitty tower, which he hasn't done in months. I wonder, did he share the bed with Sable to keep company with her?

I am also grateful that today was sunny and clear -- grave digging in the rain would have been even more challenging.

Posted by: Juturna Feb 2 2011, 10:49 PM

Please accept my sincerest sympathy on the loss of your precious Sable. I hope you can feel her spirit purring beside you at night.
Grief is a process embedded with sadness.
With healing thoughts and peace,
Juturna

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 3 2011, 01:38 AM

It's 10:35p, and I'm stalling. Sable lived on my bed, so for her not to be there ... I'm tired, I need to go to bed. I'm working tomorrow, and I can feel a headcold coming on. Time to just go face it. Wish me luck.

Posted by: corinnajane Feb 3 2011, 09:02 AM

Wishing you luck, hon.

Just wanted to say:

What a wonderful mother you are. Sable would undoubtedly have adored you, and treasured your love and companionship. You took such wonderful care of her, right up to the very end.

I completely understand about the need to be with her body. She was precious, and so her shell, her beautiful body, is precious too.

I hope you get through these terrible nights okay. I know that your other cats are waiting to step in to the breach, and comfort you.

Lots of love,
Corinna

Posted by: moon_beam Feb 3 2011, 06:06 PM

Hi, Mink&WillowsMom, I hope today has been a decent one for you. I'm glad your companions are keeping a loving vigil with you. They, too, are going through an adjustment, and I know they have your love and comfort to help them sort through the change in your household.

I hope this evening will be a peaceful one for you, Mink&WillowsMom. Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and will look forward to knowing how you and your fur tribe are doing whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: JoanneL Feb 3 2011, 09:37 PM

To Mink and Willow's mom ( and Sable's)
Hope you are able to get some rest tonight. I have not slept well at all since my little dog was killed. It is really hard when you are so used to the furperson being with you in certain places and at certain times. When they are no longer there it is like a big hole in your heart. At least that is what it is like for me.
I think it may take a long time to establish new routines without Sable by your side.
I try to stop here at night before I get ready for bed so I can "talk" to all of you.
Joanne

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 3 2011, 10:54 PM

I'm doing pretty well emotionally. I have a very intense job (psych evals on folks applying for welfare), and today could feel the fatigue of making sure I stayed focused and en pointe. I was able to talk with friends at work and tell them what happened without falling to tears. I thought I wasn't scheduled for tomorrow, and could take the day to sleep, rest, and grieve. Today learned I have a full schedule. Oy. Normally, that would be good news, but gearing up for another full day is taking a lot.

Here's the rest of the story: even without losing Sable, this would be a draining, exhausting week. Monday I drove nearly 3 hours to work in a distant office, stayed overnight, then drove 1 hour 40 minutes to another far office on Tuesday. That night I arrived home to find Sable in pain and ready to go. Because I'd driven so far, and was so tired, I didn't drive through the night to an emergency vet, but waited til morning. I try not to think that she might have been howling Monday night, when I was away. The exhaustion would be easy to just buck up and deal with, except that I've been in adrenal failure this past year. Each and every day I have to put together a plan to manage my energy. The extra driving would have been the big hit of the week, now Sable's death on top of it -- I am just pushing through on sheer grit. My adrenals are aching like hell tonight, so having to work an unexpected full day tomorrow -- by evening I'll be coasting on fumes. Fortunately I can stay in bed all day Saturday if I need to. Even though my favorite shows are on TV tonight, that's what the DVR is for, so I would do well to go to bed early.

Last night in bed was okay. I patted her spot, talking to her, AND enjoyed being able to stretch my left arm to the side for the first time in three years. Even though I am so sorry she was in pain at the end, it was a gift she let me know about it so suddenly and so clearly -- I have no regrets about releasing her, wondering if it was too early. I just hope she hadn't been enduring it silently very long. I gave her a bath two weeks ago, handling her lots, and she didn't complain in particular, though was clearly too weak to resist much. I sat her in my lap several times afterwards, working through her clumped fur, and she didn't voice pain then either. So I'm hoping it was a swiftly escalating thing, and she wasn't in pain very long before she told me.

Tinsica's death in 2002 was very sad, because she'd been with me so long -- 18.5 years, from when I was 24 to 42. Cheddar's death the following year was sad, but she too tumbled through renal failure, so I knew the terrain and was able to release her when she made it clear how miserable she was with getting sub Q fluids. (she was 16) Weeks later, I adopted kittens, Mink and Willow. Willow is a joy, but Mink was my soul kitty, and when he was hit by a car only 3 years later in 2006, it damn near ripped me in half. (Willow is the gray boy in my avatar, Mink is the black one, his littermate.) Then I adopted Rohan and Luna. (Adopting in pairs is so much more fun.) The following spring, in 2007, my father died, but I had the joyous consolation of inheriting his glorious Maine Coon cat Twitchit. Three months later Twitch died, to go be with Papa. (Killed by a raccoon.) Four months after that, I found Sable. I say this so you understand why I can be saying I'm doing okay with Sable's death. I've lost 5 cats and my father in just over 8 years. I know my way around grief. And there's nothing unfair or unexpected in Sable's death -- from the day I found her I knew to simply enjoy her as long as she chose to stay.

Willow will be 8 this spring, and Rohan and Luna will be 5 (omigosh that was fast!). So now I am blessed with a household of healthy young kittykids, and my yard is now fenced, to keep them in and raccoons out. I'm ready to have grief go take a lonnnnnngg vacation.

Posted by: Juturna Feb 3 2011, 11:59 PM

Glad to learn that you are doing well emotionally. Please take the time to get the rest you need; I'm glad you are off on Sat. Your job sounds demanding and grieving can be exhausting in and of itself.

With peace and hugs,
Juturna

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 4 2011, 05:10 AM

I went to bed at 8:15p, with the option of getting 10 hours sleep.
At 1:15a *bing* wide awake with adrenal sweats and hives.
Now my mind has clicked on.
*sigh*

I hope she wasn't bearing pain too long before she said something.
How do we know?
Kim

Posted by: rainbohdi Feb 4 2011, 01:24 PM

what an amazing story, both of you are amazing.

i guess you can never know for certain, but i think you can trust that she was clever enough to know when the time was right for her and that she trusted that you would hear her when she was ready.

it's 2.15am now where i live and i'm wide awake despite being exhausted, but like you my mind has clicked on. even though you've done the grief journey quite a few times, each one has it's own mark and is dealt with from a different perspective, it's been like that for me anyway.

i haven't really said much of use, but i am sending you lots of soothing and healing thoughts for your emotional and physical bodies.

take good care

Posted by: Juturna Feb 4 2011, 05:32 PM

QUOTE (Mink&WillowsMom @ Feb 4 2011, 05:10 AM)

Posted by: moon_beam Feb 4 2011, 05:49 PM

Hi, Kim, thank you so much for sharing with us how you're doing. As Rainbohdi said in her response, "even though you've done the grief journey quite a few times, each one has it's own mark and is dealt with from a different perspective". Experiencing multiple losses within a short period of time does take its toll, and since you already have a compromised adrenal system, the stress of grief is multiplied. I do hope you are able to just "crash" this weekend so that you can get some quality rest.

I can so empathize with you about looking forward to a long vacation from grief. Since September 2006 Noah and I have had a lot of "adjusting" to do with fur family members becoming ill and eventually joining the angels. In May my Noah will be 8 years old - - he has survived the "6 year old" death sentence that befell his adopted big kitty brother Eli and his beautiful baby sister Abbygayle. For this I am very grateful.

Kim, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers, and I do hope you will be able to shut out the outside world and hibernate with your furkids for the weekend. I will look forward to knowing how you're doing whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 4 2011, 11:13 PM

Thank you all for your support -- I SOOOO appreciate it. I'm somebody who musters through as long as I must, then crash afterward when the load is off. This weekend I can finally peel the duct tape off.

I ended up with about 8 hours sleep last night even waking in the middle, since I went to bed early. (I'm proud of myself for that -- it's so easy for me to stay up too late.) Today at work I was so tired that everything in the periphery was shimmering and my ears were roaring. My head is all 'spinny'. But I made it through, and since most people showed, I made good money.

Now I'm home, eating a good dinner. This weekend I have ZERO plans -- I don't need to go anywhere, I don't need to see anyone, I can do as I please. Sleep, rest, grieve, love on my remaining kittykids.

Rainbohdi, you're so right that each grief is different. Right now I'm not sure whether I'm just bolting myself together because I had to this week, or if I'm just accepting it all quickly. Really, I think this one's going to blow through me fairly easily. (I like the visual metaphor of the sea anemone, resiliently swaying the current, letting the sea flow through.) I loved her, and was grateful she came to my home, but we didn't have a companionate relationship the way I do with my others. She was ALWAYS on my bed, so the times I interacted with her were (1) when I first got home from work and greeted everybody, (2) when I passed through my room on the way to the bathroom, and (3) when I was in bed. So sitting in my chair in the evenings, I don't have a sense of missing her, because she didn't seek me out, didn't sit on my lap, etc. It did hit me when I first got home and walked in the bedroom tonight. Pushed it down though -- was still in 'keep it together mode.' I guess we'll see what tomorrow brings.

Posted by: JoanneL Feb 4 2011, 11:44 PM

Mink and Willow's mom
Glad you will be able to hibernate this weekend with your babies. Sounds like you really need the rest. Sable really was so lucky to have you and I am sure she knew it. I do agree that each journey through grief is different and I am not sure about "blowing through it" but hope you really do take care of yourself and talk this through with Sable. Do the other cats notice that she is gone? Are they grieving for her?
Will be thinking about you out here on the East Coast.
Joanne

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 5 2011, 02:05 AM

I wouldn't say the other cats are grieving; at least not moping. But they're definitely seeking reassurance. Sable didn't get close to them much, physically or emotionally, though she made amazing progress in letting her guard down, slowly, slowly. She was so damaged in the first part of her life, it took a long time for her to let any of us in. Last summer when I saw her lick Rohan's nose, I just about fell out of bed. Once she stopped swatting them, they each stood quietly by, letting her approach or interact at her own pace. Only recently she'd started to snuggle for a few minutes under the covers in the morning -- even that brief body contact with me was something she could do only for a short while. She didn't like to be petted very long, though she did like her chin scratches! Our most tender moments were when I would kiss her on top of her head kisskisskisskisskisskiss and then I'd put my face in front of hers and she'd lick my forehead. The way she showed affection was by purring. She purred more than any cat I've ever known -- purring me to sleep, and purring me awake. The last couple of months I'd wake in the wee hours to find her sitting by my face, watching me, purring. She was so grateful to be warm, safe, and loved, and she showed it all the time. Sweet, quiet, regal, dignified -- she never took anything for granted.

Home from the vet, she was wrapped in a fleece throw that had been on the bed, and settled into a little coffin box the vet provided.
I left the lid off so the others could see her body, sniff her, understand what happened.
Luna walked right up and investigated. Not alarmed, just checking her out. Seemed to understand right off.
Rohan was skittish, but eventually came to check her out.
Willow skulked through the house, belly to the ground, avoiding.
Last time he saw a body lying in a blanket, it was his brother, and I was howling in wild, soul-tearing grief.

As I was burying her, though, he and Luna sat nearby. Willow peeking, Luna steadfastly watching, being present for Sable and me.
The first two days Willow remained spooked. Needed a lot of reassurance.
Rohan, following Willow's lead, was also spooked Wednesday and yesterday.

Today, they're taking turns stretching out on my lap, acting pretty normally.
For a while this evening Luna sat in a basket Sable liked on top of the cabinets. Nice homage, I thought.

Ah, and I didn't mean that I'd be breezing through this. Rather, that this grief feels clear and pure, capable of blowing through me, instead of knocking me over. No regret, no resistance, no sense of it being unfair, or that I was cheated. (Which I felt so strongly with Mink and Twitch.) I feel the emotion, and I'm not struggling with it, just allowing, experiencing. Perhaps because I've been listening to so many Law of Attraction art of allowing CDs by Abraham-Hicks. Mostly because Sable's time in our home was always about simply letting her feel safe, loved, and warm for as long as she chose to stay.

Posted by: moon_beam Feb 5 2011, 03:10 PM

Hi, Kim, thank you so much for sharing with us how you and your fur family are doing. Each one reacts differently to change, and there is no "wrong" way to pay homage to a family member who has joined the angels. I'm glad your precious Willow and Rohon are doing better along with your precious Luna.

I am so glad that you are finding more peace in your grief adjustment journey, Kim. Thank you for sharing your precious Sable with us. I hope that you and your fur family will have a peaceful weekend, Kim, and I will look forward to knowing how you're doing whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 6 2011, 03:10 AM

I know it makes sense to feel relieved she died before she became incontinent. She was starting to dribble, which is why I had the fleece blanket under her. My concern is that she'd let go and it would soak through and ruin my mattress. I needed to get a waterproof pad, and felt this underlying stress because I hadn't yet. Seeing her final decline, I felt stress waiting for the shoe to drop. So now that she's gone, I feel relief. And a little bit bad because I do.

I know better. Yet still a little lingering sense that I'm dishonoring her for feeling this way. Truly, I *know* better. I know death brings a myriad of feelings, and there's room in us for all of them. Yet there's a tiny part of me that thinks I'm not being sad enough, or my relief means I didn't love her enough. So it's not the feelings that are bothering me, but this judgment about them. Does it make sense that I feel a little bad for not feeling bad enough? ~Kim

Posted by: Flossie's Mom Feb 6 2011, 08:53 AM

It makes perfect sense to me..... I had a lot of the same feelings..... still do sometimes.

When you have all the care and managing for a pet with such issues it IS somewhat of a relief when you no longer have such stress. I was beginning to get angry with Flossie because of things she could not help at all & she was so cranky about me cleaning her up. She tried so hard to "do her business" but would fall because of her hind legs. I was even setting the alarm to take her out because of the leaking & was afraid of the same thing about my mattress. And you'd better get her out fast! She only had one kidney & had been on medicine for incontinence for 3-4 years already.

I would do it again as I am sure you would. I miss her, I still cry sometimes but there was also a relief for both myself and for her that she did not have to struggle. I imagine this is also some of the feelings you have................ Had you not found her or had a different kind of person found her who knows what her life may have been. You gave her a home with love to the very end & did the right thing.

We recently had a nice cat show up at our place & I intended to keep her or find her a good home. A very sweet cat & very loving. Grateful to find food & warmth. Stopped in her tracks when I spoke to her as she ran flying across the yard so it was obvious she had been around people. Took her to the vet & found she had FIV so had to put her to sleep. She was only with us about a week & I cried as if she had been here a long time. Hated that she trusted me & I had to do that but we live in the country with no other places for miles..... what would have become of her? She surely would have suffered.

So go ahead & feel bad about not feeling bad enough when you need to. I do. I get over it. It comes back but it does fade. These guys just wrap themselves around your heart & make it a difficult journey. They are so loving & trusting. Ask only for food, warmth & love in return. Sometimes we feel we failed them...... everyone here did not fail. That is obvious from the care, love., devotion and sadness expressed by grieving "parents" who come to share their stories, sadness and the love they still feel for these wonderful creatures. Take care of yourself as well as the other wonderful ones left behind who share your home and love.

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 6 2011, 09:19 AM

Thanks Flossie's Mom, I appreciate your thoughts. Lots of normalizing, validating -- that helps. I was bawling at 4am, so I guess I'm "plugged in" after all. The touchstone truths I return to: she was days away from dying when I found her, she would never have made it off that median strip (too weak, too much traffic), and because I turned around and picked her up, she had three more healthy comfortable years. She was loved, she was safe and well-fed, she was in a quiet home with other kitties that kept her company once she taught them to keep their distance. She purred a lot and laid in the sun. And she got her chin scratched with great love!

Posted by: moon_beam Feb 6 2011, 09:51 AM

Hi, Kim, like Flossie's Mom I, too, greive for my precious Oslo but am also thankful that the Anticipatory Grief is over - - that he is finally at peace with the angels. His health and medical issues were totally irreversible, and it was his sheer Will to be here with me and his kitty fur famly members that kept him going, struggling sometimes, but still going. The stoke happened so quickly - - as they always do. I had spent Saturday afternoon with my brother and sister in law, and when I got home I knew "something" wasn't normal, but he ate his dinner quite well and took care of his personal needs normally. But Sunday morning when I woke up I knew he was in a terminal state, and I called his former vet to let her know I needed her help to put him to rest. Some of the "guilt" I have felt is not being home with him Saturday - - not sharing those precious hours with him - - and a part of me still has those twinges of "guilt." It's part of the package of reconciling the physical absence of our beloved companions, and I know my Oslo would not want me feeling guility over something I truly have no control, and no foreknowledge.

When our physical bodies are under constant stress, the adrenalin keeps pumping to give us the strength we need to do what needs to be done. When the stress is no longer present, or the stress levels drop, the adrenalin backs off and our bodies go through a "crash" syndrome - - which makes us feel exhausted and depressed. The physical loss of a beloved companion is both emotionally and physically painful, and this is one of the many reasons why we need to get plenty of rest so that our bodies will have the strength to endure the stress of grieving.

So, to offer my reassurance to you in addition to Flossie's Mom, what you are going through is very normal. I hope what I have shared with you will offer you some comfort and encouragement, Kim. I hope you and your precious fur family will have a peaceful, restful day. Please know you and your furkids are in my thoughts and prayers, and will look forward to knowing how things are going for you.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 8 2011, 02:34 AM

I miss her.

Posted by: moon_beam Feb 8 2011, 04:12 PM

Hi, Kim, I know, - - those three words say it all - - the deepest love that we will know for all eternity - - the deepest friendship begun during our earthly journey and enduring beyond the physical laws of time and space - - missing the sweet physical presence that is the very essence of our heartbeat.

You're in my thoughts and prayers, Kim - - I'm here reaching out to you across the cyber miles - - hoping you can feel the presence of a friend there with you -- just with you to listen whenever you're up to talking and offering you a shoulder to lean on for as long as you need.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 11 2011, 12:16 AM

Willow's showing an interesting change since Sable left: he's been sitting in my lap every evening. Before, he used to spend his evenings sleeping on the bed a few feet from Sable. I'm wondering now, was he keeping her company? The last several evenings he's been parked on my lap. Comfortably, easily, no drama or seeking reassurance, just like he's been freed up now to hang out with me. It's been a nice reconnection with him.

Posted by: Mink&WillowsMom Feb 11 2011, 11:45 AM

This morning I woke at 5am to see Rohan sitting next to my pillow, watching me, just the way Sable did. Same position, same distance, everything. I know it was Sable saying hello.

Posted by: moon_beam Feb 11 2011, 03:05 PM

Hi, Kim, it is not unusual for the remaining furkids in the household to take on "new" roles in the physical absence of one of their fur family members. I have seen that in Noah, and it is both awesome and inspiring. I truly believe they are continuing the role their angel family members held during their earthly journey - - as Sable has told Rohan and Willow it is now up to them to continue what was her "job" during her earthly journey.

I am so glad Rohan and Willow are both "re-connecting" with you, as well as being Sable's "mediator" with you. Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful "new beginning" with us.

I hope you and your precious fur family will have a very peaceful evening and weekend, Kim, and will look forward to knowing how you're doing whenever possible.

Peace and blessings,
moon_beam