Daddy Didn't Mean It, Empathy For A Stranger |
Daddy Didn't Mean It, Empathy For A Stranger |
Jul 9 2007, 12:01 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 100 Joined: 26-March 07 Member No.: 2,758 |
Hello, everyone --
I don't know if it's appropriate for me to post this or not, but someone I've only heard about from others is suffering the loss of his dog, and I can't stop thinking about him, this story is so incredibly sad. My mom told me about this the other night and afterwards, I hung up the phone and just cried and cried for this poor man. Frank "met" my mom online after being "introduced" to her by his neighbor, who was a co-worker of my mom's presumably trying to get my mom a little ****** action. Anyway, Frank and mom started emailing back and forth, and he told mom all kinds of cute things about his little dog. He and his now-deceased wife had gotten little Cricket and raised him together, and now that his wife was gone, it had just been him and Cricket together. He had even put together a little booklet that he sent to mom, with some pictures of Cricket and some lovely poems he'd collected over time about dogs and the deep bond they share with their human companions. I even borrowed the booklet from mom, so I could copy the poems, they were so beautiful. Eventually, Mom and Frank met face-to-face, there was no real chemistry, and their correspondence kind of petered out. Mom found out the following from the "matchmaking neighbor/coworker": Cricket loved to run out in Frank's fenced-in back yard and chase squirrels, as many of us can relate to (through our pets, of course, hopefully ...), and one day a few weeks ago, a certain squirrel was not going to back down from Cricket. It kept leaping at Cricket, Cricket kept trying to leap back, and because it was starting to look ugly, Frank got a baseball bat to try to separate the two. He meant to use the bat to push the squirrel back so he could grab Cricket and take him inside, but somehow the bat went the wrong way, and it hit and killed Cricket instantly, instead. I think about him every day now. He loved, loved, loved that dog. That dog was just the world to him, especially since his wife died. I just feel so badly for him. I can't imagine being him, can't imagine what he's been going through. Apparently, he didn't open the curtains or leave the house for a few days, he was so devastated. He had Cricket cremated. I wonder if we could all just spare a thought for Frank and Cricket. Thanks. Michelle K. |
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Jul 9 2007, 12:10 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 100 Joined: 26-March 07 Member No.: 2,758 |
QUOTE (Lucy1Josie2 @ Jul 9 2007, 12:01 PM) ****** action. I meant simple ****** action, not sure why the asterisks are there! -- Michelle |
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Jul 9 2007, 01:19 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 130 Joined: 25-July 06 Member No.: 1,881 |
Oh what a horrible thing to happen. Frank was only tryng o keep his Cricket fom being bitten by a wild animal. Accidents happen . It will take alot of time for him to get over this he needs support and compassion. Anyone here will be glad to give it.
Raggs Mom Joanne -------------------- RAGGS MILLER 12-6-1990-7-5-2006
GONE PHYSICALLY BUT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART. HTPP://WWW.IN-MEMORY-OF-PETS.COM #TR61122 |
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Jul 9 2007, 03:57 PM
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Group: Pet Lovers Posts: 203 Joined: 21-March 07 From: Spring City, Pennsylvania. Member No.: 2,744 |
Oh man! That was truly a sad story. I will keep Frank in my prayers.
-------------------- Sadie (named after the Beatles song "s e x y Sadie") came into my life when I rescued her from a cage in the SPCA in 1991. Then she was taken from me when she ate the tainted IAMs food in 2007. You will always be in my heart and thoughts, Sadie. There will never be another like you!
Rev 5:13 And every creature which is in heaven, and on the earth, and under the earth, and such as are in the sea, and all that are in them, heard I saying, Blessing, and honour, and glory, and power, [be] unto him that sitteth upon the throne, and unto the Lamb for ever and ever. |
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Jul 9 2007, 05:08 PM
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Forum Administrator Group: Admin Posts: 1,073 Joined: 3-March 03 From: Midwest USA Member No.: 1 |
QUOTE (Lucy1Josie2 @ Jul 9 2007, 01:10 PM) I meant simple ****** action, not sure why the asterisks are there! -- Michelle the word or phrase is being blocked by the bad word filter. you c-a-n s-p-e-l-l it out this way if it is important to the story. sorry about that, no control over it. -------------------- |